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Title: Best Friend + Cancer= Sad day :.(
Post by: Bladez on December 20, 2001, 02:26:28 PM
:( *sighs*

Why?  Why does life have to be so cruel?   Today in my 3rd hour Study Hall that\'s about 9:00 a.m. Central Time I found out that my friend ironically it was Nicole("my girlfriend") has had X-rays and they found a small trace of deadly cancer in her leg.  In 2nd grade she had this problem too and now it\'s taking over.  Doctors say they can operate but if the cancer spreads they might have to..........


amputate her leg.:crying:  Amputate?  If they do this they\'ll take the things she loves: sports and dances.  I can\'t get this picture out of my head of her on crutches or in a wheel chair without her leg.:(   Sorry if you people don\'t hear from me all that much.  So I am taking back everything about calling her a b***h and that...cause now I feel so damn bad about it.   Now all I can do is pray to God asking him to keep her in good health.
Title: Best Friend + Cancer= Sad day :.(
Post by: Living-In-Clip on December 20, 2001, 02:28:31 PM
Sorry to hear. Both my parents have cancer, so I understand what you\'re going through.
Title: Best Friend + Cancer= Sad day :.(
Post by: kopking on December 20, 2001, 02:34:52 PM
thats really bad, my mums friend had it..... hope she get well!!!
Title: Best Friend + Cancer= Sad day :.(
Post by: Bladez on December 20, 2001, 02:35:34 PM
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Originally posted by Living-In-Clip
Sorry to hear. Both my parents have cancer, so I understand what you\'re going through.


I too am sorry to hear that.  Well this year just keeps getting better....getting no girlfriend now she has cancer (small trace but still)in her leg.  Sucks to be me right now.:(
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Post by: ApeX on December 20, 2001, 03:46:45 PM
my mother just passed away from cancer to her lympf nodes..:(

i pray for your friend and hope she can treat it
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Post by: RichG on December 20, 2001, 03:51:29 PM
:( Sad sad day.

This year has really ****ing sucked!

I wish your friend the best of health.
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Post by: Deadly Hamster on December 20, 2001, 04:14:53 PM
i really have no way of understanding since noone i know ahs cancer , but i can imagine how much it must suck , i hope she gets well , ... sorry bladez..
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Post by: datamage on December 20, 2001, 04:26:32 PM
... I know what we say here won\'t change a thing man, but my condolences go out to her and yourself.

...
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Post by: Sublimesjg on December 20, 2001, 05:36:29 PM
that sucks i have lost three grandparents to cancer already and a friend also

i know how you feel but dont blow it out of proportion and try not to think of the worst quite yet as it isnt to that point at all
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Post by: Bladez on December 20, 2001, 06:22:08 PM
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Originally posted by Sublimesjg

i know how you feel but dont blow it out of proportion and try not to think of the worst quite yet as it isnt to that point at all


I am only thinking about the good that could come out of this.  Who knows maybe she\'ll be just fine....





*sighs*...then again.:(
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Post by: Proud To Be on December 20, 2001, 08:59:56 PM
For some very odd reason... thats how I think im gonna die, from cancer. I know its weird but I have a weird feeling about it.

anyway, hope your freind gets treated... cancer isnt a disease to be screwed with. Ive lost plenty.
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Post by: Sublimesjg on December 20, 2001, 09:02:09 PM
well if its not too bad then i would try not to worry about it to much

just try to comfort her and show her you care - im sure she will be fine but i understand thats its still hard to cope with

anyway you never know maybe after all this she will finally realize what a nice guy you are and say yes for a change - just a thought to brighten your day err..night - whichever
:)
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Post by: Halberto on December 20, 2001, 09:15:26 PM
Goddamn.  Does everyone get cancer?  My mom has a small tumor in her head and she\'s getting it taken out tommorow.
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Post by: Bladez on December 21, 2001, 01:56:16 PM
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Originally posted by Sublimesjg


anyway you never know maybe after all this she will finally realize what a nice guy you are and say yes for a change - just a thought to brighten your day err..night - whichever
:)


Thank you but I can\'t especially now tell her that I know.  Maybe in 2002 I will.  Anyway today(Friday) she seemed to be feeling a tad better but I wasn\'t buying it.:sleepy:    So at the end of school today I wished her a Merry Christmas and see ya next year that was all.  

P.S. I failed my Driver\'s Permit today.:mad:   I missed 2 too many now this makes me mad because I want to take it ASAP but my mom said not until Wednesday.  I don\'t want to wait that long.:(
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Post by: SwifDi on December 21, 2001, 04:37:57 PM
Damn amputating a leg sux. It\'s probably the third worst thing to death to me.

Second being cutting off Mr. Willy......

ouch.
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Post by: luckee on December 21, 2001, 05:48:47 PM
My thoughts and prayers go out to you,him, friends and family. May (insert your god here) be with you.
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Post by: Proud To Be on December 22, 2001, 12:04:47 AM
Well, you choose your own destiny... Either its your leg or your ****ing life, what would you choose?
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Post by: Seed_Of_Evil on December 22, 2001, 03:12:46 AM
I\'m sorry friend, it will be the 21th century disease. In spain, this is the most frecuent disease and it\'s really bad.
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Post by: Zolar on December 22, 2001, 04:32:41 AM
My uncle in Spain died of cancer 2 months ago.  It was weird because my Aunt and Uncle went to see a movie and he was fine.  When they got home he collapsed and felt very ill and passed away before the paramedics arrived.  I\'m glad he\'s at peace now.  He has had over 20 operation in the last 15 years due to his sickness.:(
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Post by: Bladez on December 22, 2001, 07:50:19 AM
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Originally posted by Proud To Be
Well, you choose your own destiny... Either its your leg or your ****ing life, what would you choose?



Totally.  I\'d choose my life than any limb.  Living is a lot better than dying at whatever age you are.
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Post by: mjps21983 on December 22, 2001, 10:11:04 AM
This is truly sad my grandma died of melanoma.
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Post by: Titan on December 23, 2001, 08:13:08 PM
My friend is suffering from lukemia. He\'s not doing too good. He was in such good health too. Well, I know what you\'re going through. My thoughts and prayers go out to you and her and her family. Be strong.
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Post by: Proud To Be on December 23, 2001, 11:46:52 PM
All the **** hits the fan around Christmas time! Why!
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Post by: Bladez on December 29, 2001, 05:54:17 PM
Well...it\'s been a very good week.  I found out Wednesday that she does not have cancer.  Instead she has to have a bone marrow transplat from her hip to her knee that\'s all.  Whew big relief there..anyway talked to her Wednesday at the mall and seems to be doing very well.  So that\'s one of 3 good things that have made me happy the other 2 I got my permit and an Xbox.:D   Pretty sweet but I got Smackdown!3(not impressed):rolleyes: DMC(could be a little longer)Nascar Thunder 2002(love because of the full field and it\'s up to date) and THPS3(awesome game):D.  So Thursday without thinking I bought a card for Nicole and my dad mailed it Friday morning about 5:45 a.m. what was I thinking?  Oh yeah I know there\'s a New Years Eve dance Monday so I sent that asking her if she was going if she was then I asked nicely to let me know.   I hope she goes.;)  So..2001 has shaped up to be pretty good now.
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Post by: Big Log on December 29, 2001, 08:02:05 PM
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Originally posted by Bladez
So Thursday without thinking I bought a card for Nicole and my dad mailed it Friday morning about 5:45 a.m. what was I thinking?  Oh yeah I know there\'s a New Years Eve dance Monday so I sent that asking her if she was going if she was then I asked nicely to let me know.   I hope she goes.;)  So..2001 has shaped up to be pretty good now.



Huh?  Does your phone not work?
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Post by: ajoh432 on December 29, 2001, 10:07:17 PM
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Originally posted by Bladez
Well...it\'s been a very good week.  I found out Wednesday that she does not have cancer.  Instead she has to have a bone marrow transplat from her hip to her knee that\'s all.  Whew big relief there..anyway talked to her Wednesday at the mall and seems to be doing very well.  So that\'s one of 3 good things that have made me happy the other 2 I got my permit and an Xbox.:D   Pretty sweet but I got Smackdown!3(not impressed):rolleyes: DMC(could be a little longer)Nascar Thunder 2002(love because of the full field and it\'s up to date) and THPS3(awesome game):D.  So Thursday without thinking I bought a card for Nicole and my dad mailed it Friday morning about 5:45 a.m. what was I thinking?  Oh yeah I know there\'s a New Years Eve dance Monday so I sent that asking her if she was going if she was then I asked nicely to let me know.   I hope she goes.;)  So..2001 has shaped up to be pretty good now.
Pick up your phone!
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Post by: Bladez on December 31, 2001, 09:09:54 AM
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Originally posted by ajoh432
Pick up your phone!



Do you have something to tell me or something?:confused:
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Post by: Titan on December 31, 2001, 09:55:59 AM
Good to hear your friend is alright.
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Post by: ajoh432 on December 31, 2001, 11:25:51 AM
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Originally posted by Bladez



Do you have something to tell me or something?:confused:
No... I just wanna annoy you......






















OF COURSE!