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Title: What should a Man do
Post by: QuDDus on April 30, 2002, 02:51:15 PM
There is this hottie at school I am diggin. She is fine, nice sweet just the total package, but I just recently found out this other chick likes me she is not as fine as the hottie I am diggin though.

P.S The hot chick is into church and stuff.
Title: What should a Man do
Post by: Bladez on April 30, 2002, 02:53:52 PM
Does the hottie you like, like you?  Maybe you said that already anyway I\'d say go for the hottie you like since you two have more in common.:)
Title: What should a Man do
Post by: nO-One on April 30, 2002, 04:07:43 PM
ahhh teenage angst at it\'s best
Title: What should a Man do
Post by: shockwaves on April 30, 2002, 04:16:12 PM
Go for the hot one, and if she isn\'t into you, you got the other one to fall back on.
Title: What should a Man do
Post by: CHIZZY on April 30, 2002, 06:16:50 PM
church girls are the dirtiest.....
Title: What should a Man do
Post by: 182Ways on April 30, 2002, 06:21:13 PM
Go for \'em both.

You can then use the non-hottest one when the hottie gets tired.
Title: What should a Man do
Post by: SwifDi on April 30, 2002, 06:58:44 PM
Hmmm... If you don\'t really like the non-hot one, don\'t bother with her. Go above and beyond, don\'t settle for the minimum. :D
Title: What should a Man do
Post by: theomen on April 30, 2002, 09:32:54 PM
keep the non-hot one as a back up, and go for the hottie.  Then see if they wouldn\'t mind a threesome.
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Post by: luckee on April 30, 2002, 09:45:51 PM
go for both of them..when dating casually, espescially in those tenn years, there are no obligations unless noted.
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Post by: Tom on April 30, 2002, 09:54:11 PM
Yeah, ask the hot one out, if she says no, go for the other.
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Post by: Bobs_Hardware on April 30, 2002, 09:54:38 PM
im sure the not so hot one would appreciate being a fall back plan.. just incase things dont work out with the one you really like  ;)

if you go for the hot one, she might like you, then you break up after a few weeks.. what happens if the not so hot has a boyfriend by then?

but it all depends on what your in it for?  you know anything about their personalities? etc. etc.  I\'d say you have a better chance with the not so hottie, than the full hottie.. (obviously)

but we all know you are gonna go for the hottie first  :D
Title: What should a Man do
Post by: project86 on May 01, 2002, 03:02:56 AM
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Originally posted by CHIZZY
church girls are the dirtiest.....



That is why I married one my friend, that is why I married one.:D
Title: What should a Man do
Post by: Samwise on May 01, 2002, 04:20:13 AM
Get them both. And a brown paper bag.
Title: What should a Man do
Post by: QuDDus on May 01, 2002, 05:34:50 AM
Maybe if they both didn\'t live in the dorms I could get them both, but the hot chick is just the total package. The other chick is looks good she just isn\'t as hot as the other. I really don\'know.

Last night me and the hot chick(church gal) was talking and I was getting like mixed signals the whole time. And I don\'t want to look like loser and be pushing up on her and she says something stupid to me "Like I don\'t date or something".

I find it weird for a chick to be so hot and have no boyfriend.
Title: What should a Man do
Post by: project86 on May 01, 2002, 05:40:01 AM
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Originally posted by QuDDus
Maybe if they both didn\'t live in the dorms I could get them both, but hot chick is just the total package. The other chick is nice she just isn\'t as hot as the other. I really don\'know.

Last night me and the hot chick(church gal) was talking and I was getting like mixed signals the whole time. And I don\'t want to look like loser and be pushing up on her and she says something stupid to me "Like I don\'t date or something".

I find it weird for a chick to be so hot and have no boyfriend.



She and her father may have already thought this through and are planning to let the father decide on whom is worthy of her courtship. I know it sounds weird but I was dating a girl once and she had asked her dad to be the judge of our relationship. He was and I was not the one. That was ok with me anyway.

Courtship is real and it is more so found in religious families to protect the daughters from getting mixed up with a guy that may be bad for the relationship.

This could just be one reason for her not having a boyfriend. You should ask her and see what she says.
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Post by: GmanJoe on May 01, 2002, 05:45:55 AM
Do what I did. Use the one that likes you for "the sure thing" and keep persuing the one you like.

Why stick to one? You\'re young! Highschool? Man, go for several. You don\'t wanna get serious with one chick.

i didn\'t get into a serious relationship until I was 23.
Title: What should a Man do
Post by: project86 on May 01, 2002, 06:20:20 AM
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Originally posted by GmanJoe
Do what I did. Use the one that likes you for "the sure thing" and keep persuing the one you like.

Why stick to one? You\'re young! Highschool? Man, go for several. You don\'t wanna get serious with one chick.

i didn\'t get into a serious relationship until I was 23.



Come on man, using someone is not the answer here. You only end up hurting somebody and that is never good.

QuDDus, just do what you feel is right, don’t go messing with some chicks head by leading her on while you check out the other “hottie”.

Besides, some of the best chicks I had in high school were not the best looking ones, but they new how to have fun and were less worried about breaking a nail like some of the “hotties”.

In the end, you’ll be happier not having hurt anybody’s feelings. :shy:
Title: What should a Man do
Post by: GmanJoe on May 01, 2002, 06:24:19 AM
He\'s gotta let her know what she\'s getting into. If he leads her on that he\'s "serious"...well, that\'s wrong. But if he lets her know that he\'s interested in her physically....and she doesn\'t mind....well well well!
;)
Title: What should a Man do
Post by: kopking on May 01, 2002, 12:50:38 PM
well go for the hot one, but dont let the other find out if u get turned down, say u didnt relise the other liked you...




but also rembr if this girl really likes you ( the not so hot one) = $ex
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Post by: Bozco on May 01, 2002, 01:01:39 PM
Go for whichever is smarter, dumb girls is got to be the most annoying thing ever.
Title: What should a Man do
Post by: Ryu on May 01, 2002, 03:10:57 PM
Don\'t people even try for meaningful relationships anymore?  The people here saying to use the "not so hot girl" as a "back up" are obviously adolescent.  Just remember to do what you want Quddus, but most of the time, what you reap is what you sow and that\'s all I\'m going to say from personal experience.

A piece of advice, don\'t listen to any of the morons in this thread about dating, who knows how "great" their relationships have been when they tell you to go after a threesome when I\'m sure none of them have ever had the experience of that or even a "Twosome" for that matter.
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Post by: SwifDi on May 01, 2002, 03:18:13 PM
Yeah um, follow your heart, or some **** like that. :rolleyes:
Title: What should a Man do
Post by: project86 on May 02, 2002, 04:33:35 AM
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Originally posted by Ryu
A piece of advice, don\'t listen to any of the morons in this thread about dating, who knows how "great" their relationships have been when they tell you to go after a threesome when I\'m sure none of them have ever had the experience of that or even a "Twosome" for that matter.


Ouch man that hurt! I was one of the few that could look back at the previous posts and say that I agree with you all the way. I hope I was not included in the “moron” statement here.:(
Title: What should a Man do
Post by: QuDDus on May 02, 2002, 06:03:11 AM
G-man joe I am 21 in college. And I agree with Ry, but when it comes to relationships it\'s nice to get other peoples thoughts and opinions on how they have faced and handle there relationships.

Because chicks are complicated and you never know what there thinkinig of doing. So sometimes it\'s helps to get other peoples advice.

Well I have been asking everyone whats up with the church girl trying to get the low down. All I have gotten from most of my buds is she is into the good girl bad likes bad guy thing, but she has no boyfriend.

I don\'t think her family is like you describe project. And average chicks will always be around so when you have a chance with a hot one I think you must go for it. I will be talking to her this weekend, maybe try and get a date see how she reacts.
Title: What should a Man do
Post by: EmperorRob on May 02, 2002, 08:41:09 AM
I\'ll take the one you don\'t want, Q.
Title: What should a Man do
Post by: Luke on May 02, 2002, 08:41:22 AM
sounds to me like you REALLY want the hot one...


go for it, if it doesnt happen, it doesnt happen, but at least you went for what you wanted.
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Post by: Bobs_Hardware on May 02, 2002, 08:42:54 AM
yeah but Luke.. really.. what do you know.. i mean c\'mon.. youre from Wisconsin..
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Post by: Luke on May 02, 2002, 08:46:00 AM
yeah.... your right.... nevermind me.
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Post by: Bobs_Hardware on May 02, 2002, 08:47:27 AM
G\'Day Luke.. G\'Day *throws money at you*

PENILE EXTENTION THERAPY
Title: What should a Man do
Post by: kopking on May 02, 2002, 11:16:58 AM
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Originally posted by Ryu
Don\'t people even try for meaningful relationships anymore?  The people here saying to use the "not so hot girl" as a "back up" are obviously adolescent.  Just remember to do what you want Quddus, but most of the time, what you reap is what you sow and that\'s all I\'m going to say from personal experience.

A piece of advice, don\'t listen to any of the morons in this thread about dating, who knows how "great" their relationships have been when they tell you to go after a threesome when I\'m sure none of them have ever had the experience of that or even a "Twosome" for that matter.





i only call them "hot girl" and " not so hot girl" cos thats what he called them


and yes i know about relationships, i was just joking on here, and if he asking these q, he dotwant anything serious........


ive been with my gf for 1 1/2 years now!!!!
Title: What should a Man do
Post by: EmperorRob on May 02, 2002, 11:33:31 AM
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Originally posted by Bobs_Hardware
G\'Day Luke.. G\'Day *throws money at you*

PENILE EXTENTION THERAPY
You want to borrow my LONGITUDE?
Title: What should a Man do
Post by: Ryu on May 02, 2002, 05:20:52 PM
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ive been with my gf for 1 1/2 years now!!!!


*looks at carbon dating machine*

Been dating mine for 7 years now :D err... dating my gf, not the machine, hehe ;)
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Post by: Bobs_Hardware on May 02, 2002, 09:11:50 PM
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Originally posted by kopking

and yes i know about relationships, i was just joking on here, and if he asking these q, he dotwant anything serious........


why would he ask the questions on here if he didnt want anything serious?
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Post by: MaXiMaN on May 02, 2002, 09:58:26 PM
Be stern, be proud, be cool. don\'t ask one out and then think you made a big mistake. You never know what may become of it.
Title: What should a Man do
Post by: project86 on May 03, 2002, 04:39:02 AM
New thought on the topics guys…

Dump the chicks, buy a blow up dolly and consider yourself lucky. Real woman cost way more than the fake ones.

Problem solved.:D
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Post by: Eiksirf on May 03, 2002, 05:55:40 AM
My opinion?  There\'s not much sense in going for a full-on relationship right out of the gates.  

Date them both a bit.  Don\'t molest them or anything; go to dinner, the mall, the movies, just something to see who you end up liking more.

You\'re not cheating on anyone since you aren\'t "going out" yet, you\'re just hanging out with a couple girls to see who you get along with.  Then go for a relationship with the one you like best.

And if all else fails, project86 sounds like he might be a little lonely. ;]

-Eik
Title: What should a Man do
Post by: project86 on May 03, 2002, 05:57:53 AM
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Originally posted by Eiksirf
And if all else fails, project86 sounds like he might be a little lonely. ;]

-Eik


You read me like a book man, like a book I say!!!:(








j/k:D
Title: What should a Man do
Post by: GmanJoe on May 03, 2002, 06:12:38 AM
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Originally posted by Ryu
Don\'t people even try for meaningful relationships anymore?  The people here saying to use the "not so hot girl" as a "back up" are obviously adolescent.  Just remember to do what you want Quddus, but most of the time, what you reap is what you sow and that\'s all I\'m going to say from personal experience.

A piece of advice, don\'t listen to any of the morons in this thread about dating, who knows how "great" their relationships have been when they tell you to go after a threesome when I\'m sure none of them have ever had the experience of that or even a "Twosome" for that matter.


I\'m in a meaningful relationship. Nine years in fact.

College was fun. I should have been a porn star. :D
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Post by: EmperorRob on May 03, 2002, 08:38:56 AM
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Originally posted by Eiksirf
Don\'t molest them or anything
Hey, you just take off your clothes, she takes off hers, and whatever happens, happens.  Let\'s not bring the law into this.
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Post by: Rick on May 03, 2002, 09:20:50 AM
My relationship used to be meaningful (see other thread), but I dint post here yet. Q, get to know them both, don\'t make it obvious, or try not to make it obvious which you prefer. Once you know what is on the inside, that should make your mind up for you. Good luck my man, but dont take too long over it, chicks dont stay single forever.
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Post by: EmperorRob on May 03, 2002, 11:35:35 AM
This name of this thread reminds me of that DVDA song "Now You\'re A Man" off the Orgasmo soundtrack.
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Post by: Luke on May 03, 2002, 12:03:24 PM
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Originally posted by EmperorRob
This name of this thread reminds me of that DVDA song "Now You\'re A Man" off the Orgasmo soundtrack.
GREATEST SONG EVER!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!11