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Non Gaming Discussions => Off-Topic => Topic started by: Starr on September 17, 2002, 02:14:51 AM

Title: Have you ever...
Post by: Starr on September 17, 2002, 02:14:51 AM
Have you ever felt like you were "second" in a relationship?...

Like say your boyfriend/girlfriend like started doin bad stuff and everytime you try to call/talk to him/her they are either busy or drugged out or preoccupied?...

That is kinda how I feel right now.   Has anyone else ever felt this way before?...
Title: Have you ever...
Post by: CHIZZY on September 17, 2002, 03:34:28 AM
No, but I\'m sure a couple of GF\'s have felt that way about me before. Especially during hockey season.
Title: Have you ever...
Post by: Ryu on September 17, 2002, 07:23:07 AM
If your boyfriend is into drugs and what not, it\'s time to ditch the sinking ship and get yourself a new piece of meat.  Sorry, just my two cents.

[Reality still hurts sometimes.  :(]
Title: Have you ever...
Post by: kopking on September 17, 2002, 07:43:43 AM
maybe, sometimes, but was more in my head than anything..... just talk about it if your really that worried.. how long u been feeling like this
Title: Have you ever...
Post by: CHIZZY on September 17, 2002, 08:21:36 AM
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Originally posted by Ryu
If your boyfriend is into drugs and what not, it\'s time to ditch the sinking ship and get yourself a new piece of meat.  Sorry, just my two cents.

[Reality still hurts sometimes.  :(]




somebody\'s feeling awfully full of themselves today... :rolleyes:
Title: Have you ever...
Post by: TheGR81 on September 17, 2002, 09:19:53 AM
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Originally posted by CHIZZY




somebody\'s feeling awfully full of themselves today... :rolleyes:



I don\'t get the part where he\'s being full of himself, he\'s just giving his opinion.

Maybe you need to get yourself a new pair of glasses.


*Edit

Sorry to go off topic, but me being a guy I think sometimes you get carried away doing your own things and sometimes forget about the most important people in life. But yeah, if he\'s into drugs and all that, I would move on if I were you.
Title: Have you ever...
Post by: ben_high on September 17, 2002, 10:15:35 AM
So what\'s he doing when you say he\'s ignoring you?Using drugs?Playing video games?watching football?Are you talking while he\'s doing this?Could be the problem.

Awwww you know I\'m just jokeing.:-p

I know you smoke pot so is it that he\'s using hard drugs?\'Cause that is a problem
Title: Have you ever...
Post by: CHIZZY on September 17, 2002, 12:06:04 PM
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Originally posted by TheGR81



I don\'t get the part where he\'s being full of himself, he\'s just giving his opinion.

Maybe you need to get yourself a new pair of glasses.


*Edit

Sorry to go off topic, but me being a guy I think sometimes you get carried away doing your own things and sometimes forget about the most important people in life. But yeah, if he\'s into drugs and all that, I would move on if I were you.


He said the same crap to me in another topic. Obviously he\'s full of piss & vinegar today. And maybe YOU should stfu.  


:laughing:
Title: Have you ever...
Post by: Jar O Pickles on September 17, 2002, 12:12:40 PM
most of the girls ive dated have had severe mental issuses so i felt second to their other pesonalities(i go after the crazy bitches cause they\'re the best in the sack)jk:)
Title: Have you ever...
Post by: theomen on September 17, 2002, 12:14:23 PM
meh, I may actually be getting into a relationship like that.  If it turns out that the chick is still hung on her ex. I\'ll be deffinetly walking away from this one.
Title: Have you ever...
Post by: Ryu on September 17, 2002, 12:53:37 PM
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He said the same crap to me in another topic. Obviously he\'s full of piss & vinegar today. And maybe YOU should stfu.


Don\'t be such a moron.  She said her boyfriend was doing drugs and I think as soon as that happens, either talk with him and work it out if the relationship is really worth saving, or take that guy to the cleaners and dump the sinking ship.  It\'s not worth worrying over if they continually are the cause of the problems.

As for the "other" thread, you weren\'t clear and then you even CORRECTED YOURSELF after I said something.  I won\'t be patronized all because of your poor story telling skills.  Oh well, perhaps your reading comprehensions skills lack the ability to tell when someone is just trying to inform somebody of something they may not know.  Way to take everything out of context!  GOOD JOB! :)
Title: Have you ever...
Post by: CHIZZY on September 17, 2002, 01:44:05 PM
Stop acting like a know-it-all, then bite me.  :)
Title: Have you ever...
Post by: Ryu on September 17, 2002, 01:48:53 PM
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Stop acting like a know-it-all


Since when was I doing that?  Does my advice\\opinion\\knowledge intimidate you?  Sorry if it does.  :)
Title: Have you ever...
Post by: Titan on September 17, 2002, 01:51:48 PM
<----- Wishes he had a girlfriend :(
Title: Have you ever...
Post by: CHIZZY on September 17, 2002, 01:53:52 PM
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Originally posted by Ryu


Since when was I doing that?  Does my advice\\opinion\\knowledge intimidate you?  Sorry if it does.  :)


actually ryu, nothing about you intimidates me. :laughing:

I don\'t know what kinda beef you have with me, and I don\'t care. Peace. ;)
Title: Have you ever...
Post by: Coredweller on September 17, 2002, 02:28:10 PM
Looks to me like the beef is the other way around.
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Post by: Bozco on September 17, 2002, 02:30:57 PM
Uh oh, drama.
Title: Have you ever...
Post by: Ryu on September 17, 2002, 02:40:40 PM
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Looks to me like the beef is the other way around.


Couldn\'t agree with you more.  :)
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Post by: Starr on September 17, 2002, 04:05:35 PM
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Originally posted by ben_high
So what\'s he doing when you say he\'s ignoring you?Using drugs?Playing video games?watching football?Are you talking while he\'s doing this?Could be the problem.

Awwww you know I\'m just jokeing.:-p

I know you smoke pot so is it that he\'s using hard drugs?\'Cause that is a problem


He is not only doin drugs but he is like sellin them too.   I dunno what kind he is doin anymore I am hoping that at the most he is only doin weed. (which I don\'t even want him doin that)

Also I haven\'t been high in quite some time.  I have nothing against anyone doin it or anything it is just that i care alot about this guy and I don\'t wanna see him get himself into trouble over a damn plant...

I feel second because everytime I try to chill with him he is always like "I have some business to do"  Then he will say he loves me to make it better.  I know he means well but that is just why I am so confused.  I really dunno what to do... :(:confused:
Title: Have you ever...
Post by: videoholic on September 17, 2002, 04:11:23 PM
Well I\'d hate to get back on topic seeing as to how a mod and a good member are having a side conversation, but...


I\'d definitely stay away from the guy.  Why bother spending time with someone you\'d never marry?  There is a huge difference between casually lighting up every once and a while and actually dealing the crap.  

I just couldn\'t imagine marrying a dealer.  If he ever gets busted you will be on the hook for whatever it takes.  Ouch..

Dump the chump.
Title: Have you ever...
Post by: TheGR81 on September 17, 2002, 04:16:00 PM
w0rd to what the guy above me said!

And Chizzy, you need to take a break, and when that part of the month is over for you, you can come back and join the rest of us.
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Post by: ben_high on September 17, 2002, 05:16:46 PM
You can\'t really take that position if you smoke.After all you have to buy it from someone right.Well somebody has to sell it.Besides just helping a few friends out I never got into selling,but I\'ve always had a level of respect for the man that takes the risk to hook me up.Truth is weed profits are almost nothing for the average dealer.

However I don\'t really see how one thing has anything to do with the other,what I mean is if he cared for you he wouldn\'t be so busy that he couldn\'t spend time with you.How much could he possibly be selling that he constantly"has buisness to do".And too stoned to show you attention?Me and my g/f get high on just about a daily basis(although neither of us have smoked in three months due to job hunting)and we\'re never  too high to show each other attention.Something else could be going on here.

Then again you could just be one of those crazy girls :p
Title: Re: Have you ever...
Post by: on September 17, 2002, 06:29:05 PM
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Originally posted by Starr
Have you ever felt like you were "second" in a relationship?...

No, im always first. The guy behind me is second. :nut:

Okay.. i\'ve been "post excessivley" today.
Yeah, I have felt that way. Thats why I broke up with her.

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Originally posted by Videoholic
I just couldn\'t imagine marrying a dealer.


I couldnt imagine anyone wanting to marry you j/k
Title: Have you ever...
Post by: Starr on September 18, 2002, 01:26:21 AM
I couldn\'t imagine marrying a dealer either...  I dunno I am gonna call him tonight and see what\'s up... I just hope he will stop this shit.  Dealing is stupid and he knows I am dead set against that shit..
Title: Have you ever...
Post by: Kurt Angle on September 18, 2002, 01:44:49 AM
This must really be affecting your sleep. It\'s pretty early in the states now isnt it?
Title: Have you ever...
Post by: Starr on September 18, 2002, 02:02:15 AM
Yea..  I haven\'t been sleepin too much because I just lay there thinkin.. I usually sleep when I get to school ^_^.
Title: Have you ever...
Post by: kopking on September 18, 2002, 11:48:52 AM
if hes dealing get away from this guy.......or using anything else than weed send him this text


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