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Title: How old is too old?
Post by: ##RaCeR## on October 21, 2002, 04:04:03 AM
Well, I really dig this chick at work, who is a total hottie. Anyway, she is like 10 years my senior. I am 18, and she is 28

Is this wrong? Should I ask for forgiveness for my wicked ways? Please tell me this isn\'t bad.

WHAT TO DO???
Title: How old is too old?
Post by: videoholic on October 21, 2002, 04:11:55 AM
Well my first question is, "Are you waisting our time or does the chick like you as well?"

If the chick likes you then I\'d say no you are fine.  She\'s jumping into her sexual peak though so be ready to learn how to use vibrators and KY for the butt thing.  Just a warning.

Ooops, you already know all about KY.
Title: How old is too old?
Post by: §ôµÏG®ïñD on October 21, 2002, 04:45:03 AM
personaly.. If she\'s your btych. Go for it. But could u really have a Serious relationship with her. I mean, you\'re only 18.
Title: How old is too old?
Post by: Bobs_Hardware on October 21, 2002, 04:54:14 AM
Of course she\'s interested in him Vid, the dude\'s a freakin\' MODEL for gods sake.. (or did the chicken pox actually ruin that?)

Or do you just wanna know if it\'s alright to jerk the gerkin over her?  Cos that\'s fine *hides collection of Elizabeth Taylor porn*
Title: How old is too old?
Post by: ##RaCeR## on October 21, 2002, 04:58:46 AM
Well, I think she likes me too, but she is bi sexual...
Title: How old is too old?
Post by: Bobs_Hardware on October 21, 2002, 05:01:51 AM
At least you have something in common...
Title: How old is too old?
Post by: nO-One on October 21, 2002, 05:16:11 AM
Post a pic of her and I\'ll tell you

:p
Title: How old is too old?
Post by: Rishi on October 21, 2002, 05:22:41 AM
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Originally posted by Bobs_Hardware
At least you have something in common...


HAHAHAHA

Racer, are you sure she didn\'t say blind, not bisexual?
Title: How old is too old?
Post by: §ôµÏG®ïñD on October 21, 2002, 05:49:45 AM
doods, she is bi.. turning gay. The longer she stays with him. The more she turns. ;)
Title: How old is too old?
Post by: on October 21, 2002, 06:47:41 AM
I wouldn\'t get your hopes up for a relationship...but a 28 year old woman could give you sexual pointers that would be invaluable.  28 isn\'t exactly an "older woman", but she is definitely old enough to know what she likes in bed.  About 1 in say....100,000 18 year old guys actually know how to please a woman.  She could help you be that one, my friend.
Title: How old is too old?
Post by: Bobs_Hardware on October 21, 2002, 06:54:32 AM
That\'s good and all Sara, if she\'s actually interested in him.  Guys often tend to mis-interpret women\'s signals thinking they like him, when really they are just being friendly (or even polite).

If she likes you, Racer, go for it.  It might not, and chances are it won\'t, last.. but it\'s certainly worth the risk.  Particularly for reasons pointed out above.

But just to make you even more trepidant... She probably isn\'t interested in you because you\'re so young :shy::D
Title: How old is too old?
Post by: kopking on October 21, 2002, 08:22:10 AM
yeah if she likes you go for it, i wouldnt expect a long relation ship, i mean one that lasts like forever, your only 18, but you never know, i had a serious relationship when i was 18, lastest 2 years almost.... was bad the break up...... but what ya gonna do ehhhh,


so if you really think she likes you, go for it
Title: How old is too old?
Post by: videoholic on October 21, 2002, 10:14:38 AM
Anyone find it ironic that bobbo is giving relationship advice?

I say ball her!!!
Title: How old is too old?
Post by: dajo on October 21, 2002, 10:31:33 AM
When I was 18, I dated a 26 yr old woman for a year and a half. It was actually a great relationship. Me being so young, I was just enjoying it at the time. I even lived with her for a few months. Eventually the relationship died out, and we both went our seperate ways. She was a hottie. Blonde, blue eyes, every 18 year olds dream girl!

We had so much fun together, she would get me into the bars in Houston and we would dance for hours. Never did our age difference mean anything to either of us. We just ended up going in opposite directions. She got a new job in Dallas, and I was moving to Florida soon after she was to leave.

 So if she likes you, have hope and don\'t act like a kid around her and you never know what could happen. Age is just a number, and feelings for eachother are not judged by age.
Title: How old is too old?
Post by: alienmagic on October 21, 2002, 10:52:46 AM
And if it works out, just imagine, when she\'s 92 and your 82, you won\'t even notice the age difference :p

:alien:
Title: How old is too old?
Post by: theomen on October 21, 2002, 11:40:55 AM
I say go for it, but be warned.. the older chicks are further along in life, and they will want more out of a relationship than sex.  I\'ve dated a few older chicks, one of my profesors being one of them, and eventually they are going to want commitment.  When that happens...RUN!!!
Title: How old is too old?
Post by: EmperorRob on October 21, 2002, 11:57:56 AM
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Originally posted by dajo
When I was 18, I dated a 26 yr old woman for a year and a half. It was actually a great relationship. Me being so young, I was just enjoying it at the time. I even lived with her for a few months. Eventually the relationship died out, and we both went our seperate ways. She was a hottie. Blonde, blue eyes, every 18 year olds dream girl!

We had so much fun together, she would get me into the bars in Houston and we would dance for hours. Never did our age difference mean anything to either of us. We just ended up going in opposite directions. She got a new job in Dallas, and I was moving to Florida soon after she was to leave.

 So if she likes you, have hope and don\'t act like a kid around her and you never know what could happen. Age is just a number, and feelings for eachother are not judged by age.
Dude reading your story makes me wanna sing that Patrick Swayze song "She\'s like the Wind"
Title: How old is too old?
Post by: Kurt Angle on October 21, 2002, 12:33:00 PM
There\'s nothing wrong with sleeping with her, no strings attached of course.
Title: How old is too old?
Post by: dajo on October 21, 2002, 12:38:14 PM
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Originally posted by EmperorRob
Dude reading your story makes me wanna sing that Patrick Swayze song "She\'s like the Wind"


:laughing: Dude I\'ll laugh everytime I see this. :laughing:
Title: How old is too old?
Post by: Cerberus on October 21, 2002, 12:45:42 PM
At the end of the day, it\'s down to personal preference. If you feel ok with it (and assuming she does), then there is no problem.

28 isn\'t all that old you know.
Title: How old is too old?
Post by: theomen on October 21, 2002, 02:55:08 PM
Just hope she isn\'t all stretched out....Unless you have a gigantic dong like me.
Title: How old is too old?
Post by: SER on October 21, 2002, 03:42:33 PM
LIARRRRRR!!!!!1111

I\'ve seen those bodybuilders, their little cute thong thingy is full of air!!!!!!!!!!! :laughing:
Title: How old is too old?
Post by: SonyFan on October 21, 2002, 04:10:27 PM
I say bone her.. and let her go.. if she comes back to you then she\'s yours. Of course, you probly shouldn\'t listen to me since I haven\'t been in a serious relationship in quite some time.. It\'s to the point where my flirtations with this girl up in Kali (mazoo, MI) is almost like a relationship to me. Too bad she\'s got a BF already, but hey.. if he\'s actually letting all this go on then I figure things can\'t be going TOO well between em.. and I\'ll be right there to catch her when he fumbles. :evil: :D

Oh.. and ROLF @ Bobbo\'s comment..
Title: How old is too old?
Post by: Rya on October 21, 2002, 05:45:12 PM
Well, think of it this way: can you be mature enough about dating someone who\'s possibly 10x more mature than your friends?  Keep in mind that she\'s either started her career path or is well established in her career path, taking on responsibilities of an adult in paying bills and such while you\'re only starting your higher education or just starting to figure out what you want to do with your life.  She\'s probably old enough to have watched Gilligan\'s Island when they first aired while you probably barely remember Smurfs.
If you can handle that type of age difference there shouldn\'t be a reason why you shouldn\'t date her.  You just have to show a lot more maturity than some of the other people who responded saying "boing her."  She\'s probably coming to or at the time in her life when commitment will cross her mind constantly and you need to be prepared to deal with that in a non-childish manner.
Title: How old is too old?
Post by: SwifDi on October 21, 2002, 05:49:28 PM
Since when did Racer start liking females?
Title: How old is too old?
Post by: CHIZZY on October 21, 2002, 06:16:37 PM
If yer just gonna hang out and get it on or whatever, then do it. I would say the age diff is too great to consider anything serious, she\'ll get bored of your antics quick. Males tend to develop maturity much later in life, so be prepared for her to make you feel like a little kid at some point. Plus, if you listen closely you\'ll hear a faint "tick, tick, tick..." yep, the ol\' biological clock. Women her age are starting to feel it big-time. My last relationship was with a woman only 3 years older than me, we started dating when I was 20. Seven years later, I was just gearing up for a second party mode, and she was picking out china patterns and baby clothes.

But if it\'s hot, then nail it.
Title: How old is too old?
Post by: on October 21, 2002, 06:26:06 PM
I say **** her....

Of course- I\'d pretty much **** anything. Ask Samwise\'s mom :D
Title: How old is too old?
Post by: SwifDi on October 21, 2002, 06:29:04 PM
........
Title: How old is too old?
Post by: mjps21983 on October 21, 2002, 08:49:33 PM
Hell I know how you feel not the age part, and I totally am into my assistant manager at work. She even tends to flirt with me, jumping on me stealing my class ring and playing with it. Then today she asks me to take biology class with her next semester, so I\'m like WTF, I\'m either looking to much into her actions and am getting totally wrong signals. Well the only reason I say that is cuz she\'s got a god damn boyfriend. Seems like every damn girls I want has a f^cking boyfriend, it is quite irritating. I\'ll just see how she reacts to me in the next couple weeks, and if I feel the tide turning my way I\'ll press on it. If not as much as I am into her I\'d turn away and find someone else, but this girl is so god damn incredible it\'s unbelievable.

Most important thing is she believes in bible, I on the other hand am skeptical of it and GOD. I believe in a creator just am not 100% sure what though, maybe I shall put a bullshit front on and be like, wanting to go to church and blah blah blah. Damn I sound psychotic, oh well!!!
Title: How old is too old?
Post by: SwifDi on October 21, 2002, 09:42:45 PM
Mike, you sound like you need a good porn, a cheese pizza, and a slushee.
Title: How old is too old?
Post by: §ôµÏG®ïñD on October 21, 2002, 09:46:07 PM
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Originally posted by Spudz
I say **** her....

Of course- I\'d pretty much **** anything. Ask Samwise\'s mom :D



I did, she doesn\'t remember you. For some odd reason sammys dad does though.


Racer, do what you feel is right. If you need advice on if u should go out with a chick. Then personaly, i think you\'re not ready.
Title: How old is too old?
Post by: Bobs_Hardware on October 21, 2002, 10:05:15 PM
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Anyone find it ironic that bobbo is giving relationship advice?


You\'d be surprised how much one can learn when having a brother and 3 older sisters, go through pretty much every relationship situation available :)
Title: How old is too old?
Post by: Samwise on October 22, 2002, 04:07:46 AM
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Originally posted by Spudz
I say **** her....

Of course- I\'d pretty much **** anything. Ask Samwise\'s mom :D
Dammit, SoulGrind stole my thunder. I was gonna tell you that she wants her husband back from you...
Title: How old is too old?
Post by: ##RaCeR## on October 22, 2002, 04:28:23 AM
Well guys, I have morals. I am not the kinda guy that wants/expects sex on the first, second, or even fifth date.

I like to take things slow. This is kind of a problem because she is a hornbag.

I still want to hit it though.
Title: How old is too old?
Post by: CHIZZY on October 22, 2002, 04:37:52 AM
damn, you ARE gay.


My prediction is:

This will never happen.
Title: How old is too old?
Post by: QuDDus on October 22, 2002, 06:39:09 AM
I\'m sure she is 50 times more sexually experienced than you are.

I say do it if you can.
Title: How old is too old?
Post by: videoholic on October 22, 2002, 08:04:18 AM
Racer, don\'t even bother..  

Any chick at 28 who wants to go out with an 18 year old ONLY WANTS ONE THING.

You puss out and wait past the first date and you are out of luck.

You\'ll be watching your best friend hitting that ass in no time.

Just freaking hit it man.  You\'ll be 50 years old jerking off in the shower as to what could have been.  Ala "American Beauty"



Oh, and one more thing....  POST A FREAKING PIC!!!  We want to see what you are about to lay down...
Title: How old is too old?
Post by: theomen on October 22, 2002, 01:02:20 PM
I kinda know where you\'re coming from Racer.  I have many girls that want sex only, and it not difficult for me in the least to get laid, but I\'m actually more interested in a relationship and in my opinion, if you rush sex the relationship will be doomed.

I guess it\'s one of those things where you want what you don\'t have.  A guy who is in a meaningful relationship, wants meaningless sex, and a guy who can get all the meaningless sex he desires, wants a meaningful relationship.


/me waits to be called gay, or conceded
Title: How old is too old?
Post by: on October 22, 2002, 01:28:45 PM
theomen, you are just so in loooove with theomen!!

I\'m just kidding, bud  :D
Title: How old is too old?
Post by: theomen on October 22, 2002, 01:38:23 PM
I knew it was coming, I could feel it in my perineum. :)
Title: How old is too old?
Post by: The Stapler on October 22, 2002, 03:20:22 PM
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Originally posted by ##RaCeR##
she is bi sexual...


GO FOR IT!

:D
Title: How old is too old?
Post by: mjps21983 on October 22, 2002, 07:44:19 PM
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Originally posted by Vapor Snake
Mike, you sound like you need a good porn, a cheese pizza, and a slushee.


Got it sir, runs to Mickey\'s Convenience Store, XXX, and Pizza Hut all for the Vapor Snake.
Title: How old is too old?
Post by: Toxical on October 22, 2002, 08:55:08 PM
Is she good looking? cause if she ain\'t, who cares. 28 is still a spring chicken IMO, try a 35-40 year old, she\'d rock your socks off.
Title: How old is too old?
Post by: Frank on October 22, 2002, 10:59:27 PM
Why do you even have to ask? I mean... wtf....
Title: How old is too old?
Post by: kopking on October 23, 2002, 11:17:53 AM
do you actually like her??? or is it like u think shes hot.... but you know not to bothered, or do you actually want to get to together... as in u liked her this way for a long time??
Title: How old is too old?
Post by: Toxical on October 23, 2002, 06:41:37 PM
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Originally posted by ##RaCeR##
Well guys, I have morals. I am not the kinda guy that wants/expects sex on the first, second, or even fifth date.

I like to take things slow. This is kind of a problem because she is a hornbag.

I still want to hit it though.


holy shiat !  if you go out with her, and you are really 10 years younger than her, she wants one thing buddy, to **** thee silly. So what the **** are you waiting for, get some rubbers, and hump her good.
And for the love of god, don’t’ ask her if you can “Kiss her” at the end of your “Date” just role on top of her and do tha nasty.
Title: How old is too old?
Post by: Living-In-Clip on October 24, 2002, 05:41:37 AM
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Well guys, I have morals. I am not the kinda guy that wants/expects sex on the first, second, or even fifth date.

I like to take things slow. This is kind of a problem because she is a hornbag.


Damn, YOU ARE GAY!
Oh, sorry, Chizzy already said that...Seriously dude, it\'s mostly a forum of guys, give up the nice guy act. We all know that you are curious what a female looks and feels like and would prefer to hit it the first night - just to see if you truly are gay or not and that\'s okay. We understand...

Now for some pointers..


;)

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