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Title: on a serious note
Post by: MPTheory on March 03, 2003, 08:43:00 AM
So lately I\'ve kind of been pre-occupied with something.  and yes, it has to do with a girl.  I met this girl a little more than a year ago.  She now lives pretty much on the other side of the country as me, (which might as well be on the other side of the world).  Despite the distance between us, we have talked pretty much every day for at least an hour.  needless to say, we have gotten a little close.  So here\'s the dilema:
  She will be here on Saturday.  Now, I\'m sure your thinking to yourself "Thats a good thing right?"  and on a normal basis I would agree with that.  But she\'s going to be here for ONE day.  then she will be gone.  Now, I dont know exaclty what will happen within this 24 hour timeframe, but I dont know if I want that to happen, what is very probable, considering the fact that we talked about it.  I just dont want to make that fact that she lives more than 12 hours away, More of a problem then it already is.  I guess Im affraid that if we get any closer then we already are, I\'m going to feel worse then before she came to visit me.   What should I should do?
Title: on a serious note
Post by: videoholic on March 03, 2003, 09:14:05 AM
Take her to Disney and grab her boobies on Space Mountain.
Title: on a serious note
Post by: MPTheory on March 03, 2003, 09:18:25 AM
Why didn\'t I think of that earlier? ;)  I think I rather take her to IOA and grab her boobies on the hulk!
Title: on a serious note
Post by: Cyrus on March 03, 2003, 09:19:37 AM
i was thinking make all that masturbation come to life bang the hell out of her make her your girlfriend and then bang her somemore and if you dont want her to be your girlfriend then well just bang the hell out of her eat everonce in a while to.
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Post by: project86 on March 03, 2003, 09:30:12 AM
That is just sad. ^^^^^:rolleyes:

Go out with her and enjoy yourself. If you get close to her so what. Sometimes having to wait is a good thing. There might come a day when you guys will live closer and who the heck knows, she could be the one for you man. ;)
Title: on a serious note
Post by: videoholic on March 03, 2003, 09:32:33 AM
I agree.  Don\'t nail her.  Just have fun.  Sex is over rated anyway.
Title: on a serious note
Post by: kopking on March 03, 2003, 09:37:25 AM
that is very hard to do.... not to sound silly but how old are both of u, maybe if u get together one of you, or both can move, if u really want something to happen...
Title: on a serious note
Post by: MPTheory on March 03, 2003, 09:43:00 AM
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Originally posted by kopking
that is very hard to do.... not to sound silly but how old are both of u, maybe if u get together one of you, or both can move, if u really want something to happen...


I know what you mean.  It would be hard to do.  And I dont think that having sex with her would ruin anything, just make it harder to see her go.  But vid, you do have a point.  Sex can be overrated.  Ive had a few relationships where I got bored after having sex with a girl.  Probably because a lot of my past relationships have been based on, pretty much, looks alone.
BTW Kopking, Im 22, she is 19.  Moving is pretty much out of the picture as of now.
Title: on a serious note
Post by: Cyrus on March 03, 2003, 09:43:37 AM
your right that was sad my spelling was terrible
Title: on a serious note
Post by: videoholic on March 03, 2003, 09:54:14 AM
Have you ever had sex with her before?
Title: on a serious note
Post by: MPTheory on March 03, 2003, 09:58:00 AM
no. But I dont base my feelings for her on her looks, basically because I never see her. All we get to do is talk.
Title: on a serious note
Post by: project86 on March 03, 2003, 09:58:57 AM
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Originally posted by Cyrus
your right that was sad my spelling was terrible
:o
Title: on a serious note
Post by: kopking on March 03, 2003, 10:00:36 AM
well i think you should just take things as they come.. if nothing happens then cool, ... if something does, then cool.. u know just let what ever happens happens, and dont wrry about it to much....... better to do something and regret it, than to regret not doing nothing
Title: on a serious note
Post by: MPTheory on March 03, 2003, 10:06:16 AM
True enough man
Title: on a serious note
Post by: luckee on March 03, 2003, 10:21:11 AM
[ladiesman] Put it in da butt[/ladiesman]


Seriously though, just have a great day. IOA is a good idea for a first date. As for sex and and such..just let nature take its course as its bound to. If it happens, more power to you. If it doesnt, you dont seem like you would be disapointed. Just do as you normally would with a woman.

You dont necessarily have to take her to motel 6, but im sure if she wants da cock, she will be more than assertive.
Title: on a serious note
Post by: Luke on March 03, 2003, 10:42:14 AM
HEY!

I moved for a girl!
Title: on a serious note
Post by: Living-In-Clip on March 03, 2003, 10:48:54 AM
Well, if you two do indeed click, it is goin\' to be painful parting after one day. Good luck, buddy.
Title: on a serious note
Post by: MPTheory on March 03, 2003, 10:53:49 AM
sorry Luke, but restraining orders don\'t count.  JK :)
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Post by: project86 on March 03, 2003, 11:06:56 AM
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Originally posted by Luke
HEY!

I moved for a girl!


Where to?
Title: on a serious note
Post by: (e) on March 03, 2003, 04:28:05 PM
Girls are just a bunch of hubba\' blubba. Not that I like the fat ones :laughing: but they think you should always be with them and shit. They think you have no life except for them...

They need to realise the world doesnt revolve around them. But whatever floats your boat, being patronized and pussy, or not being patronized, and no pussy. :laughing: boy that puts it into perspective
Title: on a serious note
Post by: luckee on March 03, 2003, 10:28:16 PM
Sounds like you have been fooling around with girls and not a woman spudz.
Title: on a serious note
Post by: project86 on March 04, 2003, 03:19:50 AM
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Originally posted by luckee
Sounds like you have been fooling around with girls and not a woman spudz.
My thoughts exactly.

"Woman" do not want to have a "boyfriend". They want a man that can give them what they want. That can be anything from money to sex. All "woman" are different spudz. ;)
Title: on a serious note
Post by: tigress on March 04, 2003, 12:23:12 PM
could\'nt agree with you more luckee

I think by catorgorizing the whole female population based on the behavior of a  few bi***** is unfair We are not all revolved around ourselfs.  I mean hey I do not think all males act the same way as a few ass clowns on this site. Anyways

Distants makes the heart grow fonder i think that you should make it memorable have fun get close who knows were it could lead and sex is not the only thing in the world because if you think of it that way a close relationship means constant a**.  But on a serious note enjoy the time you have make it last as long as you can and always keep that hope that you too will work something out regardless of distance
Title: on a serious note
Post by: Deadly Hamster on March 04, 2003, 01:34:15 PM
Just do whatever she wants to do. :)
Title: on a serious note
Post by: Rya on March 04, 2003, 03:25:51 PM
I think you should keep the relationship as it is.  It\'s close, but it isn\'t something.  Take what time you have with her to chat like you would normally do over the phone or online; take advantage that you have her in your presence as you have a conversation.  It\'ll keep what distance there is between the two of you, but still maintain that closeness.  It\'ll keep either of you from getting hurt.
Title: on a serious note
Post by: (e) on March 04, 2003, 04:25:34 PM
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Originally posted by luckee
Sounds like you have been fooling around with girls and not a woman spudz.


Consider in 15 your right :laughing:

I was quick to jump to my conclusion by saying all girls are alike.

My bad, Its just something is going wrong with me, im not making an excuse, I really think something is wrong with me.
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Post by: Living-In-Clip on March 04, 2003, 07:50:23 PM
Personally, I think relationships are a waste of time. Even if you really care for a girl, your best bet is to sleep with her and dump her. That\'s just my two cents tho\', as I do not believe in commitment or marriage.

-shrugs-

Then again, I also think women are two faced, evil demons sent by the devil. The only have one purpose and that is to drain a man. May that be mentally , finance wise or even physically. They will drain you and ruin your life. If nothing else, but for the fact that they can have kids ...EEK!

But hey, what do I know?
;0
Title: on a serious note
Post by: SwifDi on March 04, 2003, 10:41:50 PM
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Originally posted by Living-In-Clip
Personally, I think relationships are a waste of time. Even if you really care for a girl, your best bet is to sleep with her and dump her. That\'s just my two cents tho\', as I do not believe in commitment or marriage.


 


Its that attitude that leads you to those "two-faced" "evil" "demons sent be the devil" girls.
Title: on a serious note
Post by: Bobs_Hardware on March 04, 2003, 10:47:01 PM
No, it\'s those "two-faced" "evil" "demons sent be the devil" girls that led him to that attitude.
Title: on a serious note
Post by: MPTheory on March 06, 2003, 11:12:17 AM
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Originally posted by Rya
I think you should keep the relationship as it is.  It\'s close, but it isn\'t something.  Take what time you have with her to chat like you would normally do over the phone or online; take advantage that you have her in your presence as you have a conversation.  It\'ll keep what distance there is between the two of you, but still maintain that closeness.  It\'ll keep either of you from getting hurt.


So you dont think it would hurt just as bad if one of the two of us were to mention that we were dating someone else, even after the fact that we have discussed how we feel for eachother? Because at some point of time that would happen. I\'m not one to sit around and wait for something to happen by itself.  

BTW.  Basically, were just going to have some fun, and do what we do.  Im not going to think about anything accept whats happening at the moment.  We\'ll deal with the aftermath later.
What will be, will be.
Title: on a serious note
Post by: Luke on March 06, 2003, 11:22:59 AM
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Originally posted by project86


Where to?


I MOVED TO...



ANN ARBOR, MICHIGAN!!!!!



for that sweet \'tang
Title: on a serious note
Post by: tigress on March 06, 2003, 11:44:52 AM
SWEET!!!! luke I did not know you were from MI I am from Detroit
its a small world lol.

Living-in-clip  i feel bad for you obviously you have not met a girl worth commiting to.  Believe it or not but everyone deep down wants to have someone their to support them and be there for them.  sadly enough no one has ever given you a reason to want a commitment.  Which brings me back to what lukee said obviously you are messing around with girls not women.  Although there are some women who are real bi***** but you can\'t judge us all like that.  For example I want a guy that has a life of his own, I will make time to see him, I will never ask him to give up his dreams for me, What ever he decides to do I will support him, I DO NOT WANT HIM TO SPEND MONEY ON ME!!!, material stuff means nothing, and i will never ever make him do something he does not want to do, Thats just me though maybe i am just an odd ball or one in a million.  But you are entitled to your oppinion.
Title: on a serious note
Post by: MPTheory on March 06, 2003, 11:55:36 AM
Ahh some day he will get sick of just simply... "Banging"  Chicks.  Ofcourse, after reading his view on women, I dont know if any will want him to find them.  Sorry man.  but that was pretty harsh.
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Post by: videoholic on March 06, 2003, 12:24:13 PM
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Originally posted by MPTheory
What will be, will be.


Yeah, I agree.  Get yourself some road skull.
Title: on a serious note
Post by: MPTheory on March 06, 2003, 12:35:47 PM
What the hell is road skull?
Title: on a serious note
Post by: videoholic on March 06, 2003, 01:02:41 PM
Oh god.  Kids today have no vocabulary.
Title: on a serious note
Post by: Rya on March 06, 2003, 03:33:30 PM
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Originally posted by MPTheory


So you dont think it would hurt just as bad if one of the two of us were to mention that we were dating someone else, even after the fact that we have discussed how we feel for eachother? Because at some point of time that would happen. I\'m not one to sit around and wait for something to happen by itself.  

BTW.  Basically, were just going to have some fun, and do what we do.  Im not going to think about anything accept whats happening at the moment.  We\'ll deal with the aftermath later.
What will be, will be.

Mentioning about dating other people...that\'s something that you and her have to discuss.  The both of you understand where your relationship is at, where you would like it to go or not go.  If that\'s not already understood, emphasize that to her.  Make it clear where your relationship is standing.  And then ask if she would be ok if you were to date someone else.  See where that takes you next.

Anyways, I hope you have fun with the time you have with her.  =D
Title: on a serious note
Post by: MPTheory on March 07, 2003, 07:46:30 AM
Thanks Rya.....

Now Vid.  Would this happen to be the same as road head?  cause that I can understand.  And Im not a kid :/
Title: on a serious note
Post by: luckee on March 10, 2003, 07:01:29 AM
So what happend??? Can\'t leave us just hanging in the wind. :D


O yea...



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Title: on a serious note
Post by: MPTheory on March 10, 2003, 10:04:34 AM
Hmm, well, lets see.  She missed her flight because she drank too much that previous night.  So to make a long story VERY short, she didn\'t make it this weekend.  She\'s supposedly getting NEW tickets for next weekend.  Money Obviously isnt an issue to her, cause she just waisted 200 bones.  Anyway, Juslight and I went paintballing instead.  That was good stuff!
Title: on a serious note
Post by: videoholic on March 10, 2003, 10:15:52 AM
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Originally posted by MPTheory
Thanks Rya.....

Now Vid.  Would this happen to be the same as road head?  cause that I can understand.  And Im not a kid :/



Um yeah....  But I like the term skull.  Peace.....
Title: on a serious note
Post by: juslight on March 10, 2003, 10:25:42 AM
Yup, there\'s nothing like a little paintball to make you forget about an insensitive, money-careless alcoholic tramp.




J/k





sorta

;)
Title: on a serious note
Post by: videoholic on March 10, 2003, 11:04:49 AM
Let me guess, In paintball you were the one firing the blue balls?
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Post by: MPTheory on March 11, 2003, 07:27:06 AM
HA, no they wer yellow, but they were very swollen.  :O
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Post by: kopking on March 12, 2003, 01:11:02 PM
the reason she didnt turn up


her 3 hours before flight time
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Post by: Big Log on March 12, 2003, 07:01:50 PM
So many bottles, so little time.
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Post by: SER on March 12, 2003, 07:32:56 PM
I think kopking should just keep posting pics now instead of words... Easier to understand. ;)