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Non Gaming Discussions => Off-Topic => Topic started by: Bossieman on August 31, 2004, 12:25:26 AM
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Help me please someone. This is the situation. I like this girl a lot, I am not in love with her(yet). My best friend is totally in love with her. Last Saturday at a party she made a move on me. We had been looking at eachother for the last couple of weeks and she took the final step. I told her that I didnt want my friend to see us togheter so we decided to talk when we were not drunk. I have spend a lot of time talking to my friend and I have come to the conclusion that I cant get involved in a relation with her at this time. I will tell her that I want to spend time with her and get to know her better and hopefully my friend might get over her in time. This girl has told my best friend that she is not interested in him at all.
When she started at the Universtity last year she fall in love with me but I was not ready at all. I was in the middle of a hard seperation. So, am i doing the right thing here or what?
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Don\'t let a broad fux0r a friendship I say. With all the utterly stupid people out there a good friend that shares your interests is a nice thing to have.
How much do you have in common with that girl anyway?
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Do her in the pooper so your friend has no idea you took her innocence. :p
Seriously, talk to your friend. Tell him you\'re also interested. This way, the cards are on teh table. If he\'s truly your friend, he will be happy for you since she likes you more. Unless she likes threesomes. :D
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it depends,..i mean if both of you guys were checkin\' her out & your boy was the one actually kickin\' it with her, then she told him she wasn\'t interested, then i probably wouldn\'t. but if he knew you felt the same way about her and just tried his luck at getting her first and failed then i\'d say go ahead and get your mack on...as if to say "yo man i tried to kick it with shorty but she just shut me down...you can try your luck if you want" <----if it went down like that then i\'d go ahead and pursue it..
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You first need to find out if the chick follows rule number one. If she doesn\'t follow rule number one then it certainly isn\'t worth risking your friendship over.
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Ah... the whole, "Bro\'s before Ho\'s" ideaology. Well I\'ve never encountered a situation where me and a friend were into the same chick, but I have blown off my friends for a girl so many times. Its definitely one of my vices; but I always expect my friends to understand my reasoning.
Honestly though, she likes you. It may be so that you\'re friend may be in love with her, however if she doesn\'t feel the same way at all, then its time for him to move on. You have got to talk to him though... don\'t wait any longer, and just tell him how you and the girl feels. Keep in mind, that if you and this girl does hookup, undoubtedly your friend will develop a chip on his shoulder. This is all the shit you have to realize you\'re now risking by getting involved with this girl. Do whatever is most important to you.
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If it causes a serious strain on a friendship, don\'t do it. Girls will come and go, but friendships last longer. Unless you\'re gonna be spending the rest of your life with a chick, don\'t put her before your friends.
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I would not date this girl and ruin and friendship.
But I would hit it and just be friends with her.
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I would say talk to your friend and tell him what\'s going on. If he was your friend, he\'d back off and be happy for you. But then again, he may bottle his feelings inside and be a nuisance. I still say try talking to him and tell him how you feel about her.
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First. Punch him in the nards and than while hes down knock him over the head with a crowbar. Than when he wakes up tell him that the girl did it, than he wont like her.
J/K
I\'d say. Talk to your friend. Tell him you like her also. Simple as that. If he\'s going to be a girl about it and whine over one girl than forget him. It\'s just a girl he shouldn\'t really care if she chose to like you and not him. Slap his ass if he gets all emotional on you. Theres plenty of other girls out there.
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Bossie, run away from this thread like it\'s been infected with the plague. These boards have a running curse with relationships
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Bah I ve been in the same uncomfortable situationI am sure that if at the end she doesnt like him and ends up with you your friendship will no longer be the same.Love screws with the mind and it sure is screwing your friends mind.You cant just speak to him and then everything would be ok.You cant tell yourself not to be in love from one day to the next.
He wouldnt feel well even if he doesnt show it when seeing you and her together.
Just dont fall in love with her.Friendship is a great thing and hsouldnt be risked
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Originally posted by Unicron!
Friendship is a great thing and hsouldnt be risked
But on the other hand...
...so is pussy.
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:laughing:
Pussies are all the same and usually get replaced in a short period of time.Friends arent.
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Sweet, sweet pussy.
Seriously.
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LOOK STOP TRYING TO MAKE MY HORMONES BLIND MY CHOICE OK? :p
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Cleanly shaven...
Dripping...
Sweet...
Like you\'ve been walking in the desert for years without water...
That oasis, the nectar...
On your tongue...
You can almost...
You can almost taste it...
Sweet, sweet pussy.
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^^
like mom used to make
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pusssssssssssssssssssssssssssssyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy
Who needs friends?
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I wish you had a pussy....and were here right now......and didn\'t look like a dude....
*rubs nips
mmmmmmmm
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I don\'t think your friends have pussies? Do they?!
He\'ll probably forgive you anyway, (later down the line) if he\'s a little bitch about it and decides he wants to get mad about it.
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hmm. a tough call. but i\'ve known some guys of whom I thought they were very good friends of mine........
Like in one of RATM\'s songs ; "...Your friendship is a fog
That disappears when the wind redirects...."
Unfortunately, I found out there\'s alotta truth in that..
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:laughing: Bobbo and theomen are the best.
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Originally posted by Bobs_Hardware
Cleanly shaven...
Dripping...
Sweet...
Like you\'ve been walking in the desert for years without water...
That oasis, the nectar...
On your tongue...
You can almost...
You can almost taste it...
Sweet, sweet pussy.
damn...bobo! that s**t is hilarious! :laughing: :laughing: omen is one sick a$$ as well :laughing:
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WWED
(what would einstein do?)
seriously though... that\'s a tough call. You could always try to just go on a few dates (hit it) and see how things go before getting too serious. It would suck to ruin a friendship forever over railing a chick a few times.
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then, if he gets her, you could wait until it\'s serious and ask:
"how\'s my dick taste?"
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as if to say "yo man i tried to kick it with shorty but she just shut me down"
I was just going to say that.
While I was reading this thread, I remember back in like 8th grade, my best friend went out with two girls one after the other. The only two girls I was interested in, heh.
Our friendship endured long after those chicks disappeared.
Set your buddy up on a date so he\'s not lonely. Then go for it.
Then in four months when you both hate each girl, you can hang out and have a beer.
-Dan
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maybe just feel your friends out and see if they\'ll give you a bj, if not, then go full force for the poonany.
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Originally posted by Bobs_Hardware
Cleanly shaven...
Dripping...
Sweet...
Like you\'ve been walking in the desert for years without water...
That oasis, the nectar...
On your tongue...
You can almost...
You can almost taste it...
Sweet, sweet pussy.
heh. *shakes head* Something very few could get away with.
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okey. I have talked to the girl and my friend. I have told him what happened during the party and he did not like it at all, but that was a nobrainer. We then started to discuss the theoretical aspect if I would get into a relation with her. Well he told me he would get hurt so that was it. I cant date a girl if it hurts my best friend. So I decided IF she was interested in me i would tell her that i would like to spend some time with her to know her better and see what happens. But something happened..... Oboy, not good, lol
This happened. My friend thought that she really wanted to start a relation with me. So he wrote a email to her telling her to not care about his feeling a.s.o.
So when I meet her, she thougt that I had taken for granted that she wanted to be with me, lol. She was pretty angry and she told me that it was just a "drunk thing" a.s.o.
So we can easily say that the situation was pretty bad. I explained that i had never taken for granted that she wanted to get into a relationship with me. I didnt know anything about her feelings exept for the fact that she had told me she liked me a lot and had been inlove with me a year ago.
But that didnt changed her attitude. Well what can I say.......
BTW. There is something that is disturbing. My friend have not yet told me that he had send that email to her before we meet, I wounder why...
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wow Bossieman,
I got a bad feeling something bad is going to happen such as misunderstanding and false accusation which could lead to danger such as physical assault and stuff...
but maybe i am paranoid. Hopefully, everything gets clear up and beautiful again for you and your friend and your secret admire...
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Oh God screw it. That girl\'s already turning into a bitch. Stay away from her. Go to another party and forget about it.
-Dan
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I\'m just curious: How old are the three people involved in this story?
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Im 29, she 23, him 23
I know Im to old for this kind of games.
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You should be concentrating on your damn theory that will make you rich and revolutionise the way the world looks at physics!
Then again...
...sweet, sweet pussy.
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Yea, this girls turning into a bitch. Dump her. Go find some other camels.