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Non Gaming Discussions => Off-Topic => Topic started by: Paul2 on October 02, 2005, 10:47:29 AM
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Which one of these are you guys more of?
I think I am mostly passive. And there are times where i am passive - aggressive. Rarely am I assertive though.
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Depends on the mood
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I can be all 3. Whatever the situation is, you have to adjust, I suppose. You don\'t want to be passive when you should be aggressive and vice versa.
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Assertive.
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Passive.
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Assertive.
The real question is optimisitc, or pessimistic?
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passive
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Passive
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ASSertive
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Aggressively ASSertive. :}
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Passive, most of the time
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too passive, too lazy
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Assertive - Aggressive...
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Wow, I can\'t believe that some of you fit a different description than I thought. For example, I was surprise to see Luke is passive, and (e) as assertive. I would have thought Luke would have been the assertive type and (e) being passive. from the time I been here, I would have pictured (e) as a shy passive kid while Luke as a more independant guy. But again, I never see them in person to really know.
As for me, I usually fell under pressure, and gets very scare that I find its really difficult for me to become assertive in most cases. Depending on the situation though. That sometimes when I get angry say when someone did something really wrong to me. That I didn\'t know how to express my anger. So I become passive bout it. Then lead to aggression. And my angers creep out in weird ways instead of getting to the point, hence known as passive - aggressive.
There is a time that i didn\'t remember what makes me angry at this person. He did something wrong to me, I keep it inside and days later I forgot why I was angry at him, and I acted out my anger toward him in weird ways. If someone did asked me why was I rude at him, I would probably say, "there i something I don\'t like about him. Probably the ways he look, act, or talk." But way later I realized I was angry at him because that person did something mean to me but i didn\'t remember or make the connection, not because of the way he look, act, or talk...
It took me years to realize what kind of person I am and I understand myself better now but still not completely. I find that I am can be too complicated to understand sometimes but i am still trying to figure out what kind of person I really am and try to improve upon it.
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i be asserting mah shit all ova yo ass