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Non Gaming Discussions => Off-Topic => Topic started by: Luke on March 23, 2001, 07:19:14 PM

Title: Thank you all!
Post by: Luke on March 23, 2001, 07:19:14 PM
Well, all of you have helped me very much in the last week without even knowing it and I just want to say thanks.


My future wife and I have been together sense we were 15. We are both now 23. She had never been outside of Wisconsin and allways felt caged in.
Well, last Monday she completely flipped out and left me and went to Florida with nothing but a goodbye. Leaving me and her mother completely in shock and horribly depressed. I didn\'t eat or sleep for 5 days.
I had to be checked into a hospital because I was fainting twice a day from lack of food and sleep. I felt like I was going to die because the woman I love with all my heart left me. Well, her mom just called her and then she called me and said that everything was o.k. and that she will be home on Sunday. Apparently she went to Spring Break with a couple of her freinds and did this to me because she had to see for herself what it would be like living without me.

For those of you that are deeply in love or married you can understand the hell I was in this week.

Being on these froums made me forget my problems and I just wanted to thank you all for helping me through the toughest week of my life.

You don\'t have to respond to this if you don\'t want to. Just know that you contributed to keeping me from going totally insane.

Thanks,
Luke
Title: Thank you all!
Post by: Avatarr on March 23, 2001, 08:47:48 PM
Wow, Lucas.... that\'s, just...... incredible!!
What an awe inspiring story!!
Title: Thank you all!
Post by: Lavan on March 23, 2001, 08:57:18 PM
Well I\'m glad you\'re okay, and that you and your girlfriend are back together again.

:)
Title: Thank you all!
Post by: Aaron on March 23, 2001, 09:13:35 PM
That\'s pretty insane!
I\'m glad everything worked out for you in the end. Hopefully she got that out of her system. :)
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Post by: Samwise on March 24, 2001, 12:40:43 AM
I\'m glad we could help a little during the tough week. Hopefully it should all be ok now. :)
Title: Thank you all!
Post by: StAnZo on March 24, 2001, 12:55:44 AM
Man, that stuffs deep. It takes a real man to admit that sort of stuff! I\'ve been with my wife for about 7 years now
and she is my backbone. I\'ts good to see that things are working out for you lucas. i wish you the best, Honestly

Keep the faith.
Title: Thank you all!
Post by: nO-One on March 24, 2001, 12:32:35 PM
Glad I could help out :) (I did help you right?please say I helped you)

j/k
But that story is pretty intense I mean fainting and stuff.You must really love the girl.
And StAnZo is right it takes a man to admit to stuff like this.
Title: Thank you all!
Post by: Living-In-Clip on March 24, 2001, 12:43:20 PM
That is some very insane stuff man. Hope everything works out.

(psst. We need a logo...Something like, "Not only gamers--support group also!")
:)
Title: Thank you all!
Post by: Luke on March 24, 2001, 01:08:22 PM
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Originally posted by nO-One
Glad I could help out :) (I did help you right?please say I helped you)

j/k
But that story is pretty intense I mean fainting and stuff.You must really love the girl.
And StAnZo is right it takes a man to admit to stuff like this.



Yes you did help out, everyone did by just being here.
I know it sounds corny cause let\'s face it. In the grand scheme of things this is only a fun place to talk about video games, but this place really was my salvation for a couple days.
I really don\'t know how I would have gotten through it without being able to come here and read and post and just forget what was going on.
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Post by: Solid Snake 88 on March 24, 2001, 06:29:05 PM
Geez Lucas. I mean, wow, I\'m at a loss for words. All that time you had been posting and we didn\'t even know anything was wrong.

I have to say that I agree with you saying that this place is your salvation. I feel exactly the same way. Its great to just come here and talk with you guys, and forget about all the troubles in the world.

We are not just a group of gamers, we are our own little family. I can\'t say that I would take a bullet for any of you, but I sure as hell would defend you in a fight. I honestly consider this my home away from home. Its a pity there isn\'t an actual meeting place, a real PSX2 Central. But with all of us so spread apart thats just impossible.

I hope that I was able to help you in your time of need. Most likely I just pushed you further and further into insanity. :p
Stanzo and no-one are right, it takes a real man to admit that kind of stuff.

Good luck with your future wife. And never leave us. :)
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Post by: Sublimesjg on March 24, 2001, 08:08:18 PM
well i am sorry and happy for you i guess

maybe you should show her what its like without you - or not

but i think that is pretty extreme way of expression - but glad we could be of some service
Title: Thank you all!
Post by: Luke on March 24, 2001, 10:06:54 PM
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Originally posted by Sublimesjg
well i am sorry and happy for you i guess

maybe you should show her what its like without you - or not


Ahhhh to be 18 again:D

it doesnt work that way with soul mates. when you find yours you\'ll understand. I don\'t function right with out her. I can\'t really explain it I guess.
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Post by: Darth Joyda on March 25, 2001, 02:21:33 AM
"We are a little family". That\'s exactly what I meant on the "Where\'s The one Billy Gunn" -thread ;)

You\'re too nice sometimes.

But I\'m happy to hear everything went ok in the end, Lucas, and that I had my share in helping you. This is a place where you forget everything that is work, even depression is forgot. I know this, as I\'ve forgot few exams due being too much here ;)

Anyways I\'m glad you had the guts to share this with us, Lucas, as I usually keep my personal things to myself. This might be a good place to express your sorrow feelings - I\'ve done it too, but it was quite different.
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Post by: unknown on March 25, 2001, 07:48:45 AM
man i helped ya, i talekd to ya on MSN messenger, you guys wana know the wierdest sheet, for soem wierd reason, in some outrageouse way, i seem to have had luke on my buddie list for like 3 months! and i didnt even know it was him, till one day he just sent me a message and said who are you?? i asked him the same thing a couple of days before that, he asked if i was at the forum,and i said yes, but i dont even remember adding himt o my buddie list, of even ever talking to him, its a small cyber sopace, lucas i hope that your girl wont run off like that anymore
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Post by: Terry Bogard on March 25, 2001, 11:35:40 AM
Grr.....I have been away from my girlfriend for almost 5 weeks...well she is only 15, and thats kinda bad if you consider my age which is a healthy 19. I miss her everyday of the week, and i do plan on going to spring break for a whole week in 2002 to Cancun Mexico, and if i am still together with her its going to be hard on her and me, and with all of thos hot girls down there how in the hell will i not manage to keep my hands off of them...God i hate being away from her...but its all for good cause, and i know she will understand hell maybe i can talk her mom into letting her go with me:D

Anyways Sorry to hear about that Luke, and at least its on the GOOD side now:D
Title: Thank you all!
Post by: Luke on March 27, 2001, 10:38:50 PM
just a little follow up for those of you that care.


We are back together. we both admitted to things that we need to change and have agreed to work on them together. maybe ill post some pics of us so you guys can see what we look like. i know that now sence you all have read this thread you have to be thinking "I wonder what these crazy people look like"?
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Post by: Ethan_Hunt on March 28, 2001, 03:27:17 AM
Good to see that you are ok,dont know what i would do if i lost my lady,probably do just what you did,but things happen for a reason,maybe your life was going in the wrong direction,and has been put back on track,anyway good to see you are ok.
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Post by: nO-One on March 28, 2001, 09:01:58 AM
Yeah it would be great if you\'d post pics of you and your gf.I\'d like to know who the crazy man is behind the Cartman pic :D