Would you fight for love??

Ok there is this girl I know she the cousin of some of my cousins.  Well anyways I met her years ago and we have bee friends ever since. She use too attend our church. We got kind of close and I new she liked me and I liked her. I guess I was too shy and did not tell her. So I ended up leaving an falling for other chicks. And recently I met her again after over a year of not seeing eachother. And we huged eachother, but it was one of those hugs where you are getting much more physical than you should be. I mean you know when your just feeling eachother up, but pretending to hug. So later we ended up driving for a little while and talking. And she started making little comment about us being together. And saying how we can talk about everything together.  Well after that she gave me her phone number and told me her to call me so we can go out.

But now I found out she is dating my cousin. I don\'t know how she can come off like she wants to be with me and be dating my cousin. I know she don\'t like him or she would not be one me. I know I like her I have always. We can talk about anything. We get along  great. I did not tell my cousin, because I talk to him once and he was talking about her like he likes her and I did not want to say anything too him.

So now I don\'t know what too do. I know she does not want him.  I know I could take her, but I don\'t want to do that too my cousin. Me and her have not discuss this because I am just thinking of letting it go and if it is meant it is meant.  My friends say I should tell her how I feel  and put it all out in the open. But I don\'t wanna do that to  my cousin. Me and him are like brothers.

If she\'s your consin\'s cousin then doesn\'t that make you two partly related? :sconf:

Originally posted by Jumpman
If she\'s your consin\'s cousin then doesn\'t that make you two partly related? :sconf:

NO she has no relation to me. She is related to my cousins because of thier dad. Which is the gradfather of my cousin. Who is is my great aunt\'s son.

This is how she is related to my cosins.  I think her great....great...grandfather about 55 years ago had sex with my great aunt and they had a son. Now all his fathers family becomes his kids family and there kids family. He is one of my family members, but I do not inherit his fathers family because I am not one of his kids or grand kids. I am his cousin because his mom is my great aunt.

In anycase she has no relation to me she is related to my cousins bye there dad, and bye him being  of my cousins grandfather.

I say beat up your cousin.

Fight to defend your woman and her honor!!!

Do not fight to "get" a woman... If she wants you, she\'ll get you. Men aren\'t the only players you know.

Alright, this happened to me a long time ago,
in high school, grade 9

My best friend had this girl, she was ok, (if you know what i mean )  Well one day my friend called me up, and told me he felt the biaattch was cheating on him, but he had no proof. We left the conversation at that, speculation. One week later I was with her in a park doing the nasty. I told him she was a 2 timing Biaatch, and he dumped her. End of story. Now, it depends how close a friend you are to your cousin, if ya grew up with em from grade 1 up to grade 12 then expose her, he is your friend after all. If you are a "Distant" cousin who sees his cousin once a year, leave it alone, if she comes on to you, (you know what you gotta do right? )  

My motto, a woman should never stand in the way of friends.

Note: all opinions expressed in this post are mine, and mine alone.

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a sweet alabama love story

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Originally posted by jaropkls
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a sweet alabama love story

Hey now...don\'t go there. I still have no idea why you\'re not related to her. That was a blur what you said.

Originally posted by jaropkls
aaaawwwww
a sweet alabama love story

hahahahahaha

oh man, i was waiting for something like this!


anyways, take it from your old uncle Luke. Girls are evil and they scare me. But...... they do smell nice, well most of em anyway.

Originally posted by Toxical
Alright, this happened to me a long time ago,
in high school, grade 9

My best friend had this girl, she was ok, (if you know what i mean )  Well one day my friend called me up, and told me he felt the biaattch was cheating on him, but he had no proof. We left the conversation at that, speculation. One week later I was with her in a park doing the nasty. I told him she was a 2 timing Biaatch, and he dumped her. End of story. Now, it depends how close a friend you are to your cousin, if ya grew up with em from grade 1 up to grade 12 then expose her, he is your friend after all. If you are a "Distant" cousin who sees his cousin once a year, leave it alone, if she comes on to you, (you know what you gotta do right? )  

My motto, a woman should never stand in the way of friends.

Note: all opinions expressed in this post are mine, and mine alone.

Yes me and my cousin are very tight. Like brothers. He likes her. And I can\'t come between something he thinks he have. And me and this girl have been friends for a long time. I mean there has always been a attraction between us. I guess I am going to leave it alone and try to distant myself. Because I don\'t want anybod saying we where fighting over her or I caused their break up. She will eventually break it off with him.

No woman is worth fighting over, especially if its because she can not break off a commitment.


SHe maybe nice, and she may like you, but if she really really feels this way she\'d take the necessary steps to make your relationship with her a realitu without or minimizing the problems you WILL have with your cousin


We\'ve all been in your situation, but if its meant to be its meant to be, you fighting for her shouldnot have to happen.

If you we\'re defending her honor after you 2 have been an item for some time then fighting may be necessary, but it should never be necessary to start a new relationship

Ditto to what ddaryl said. If it doesn\'t work out there are other fish in the sea.

Originally posted by CygnusXI
Fight to defend your woman and her honor!!!

My gf has a brown belt in Ju Jitsu so if it ever came to defending her honor I\'d probably try, get my ass kicked, and then she\'d come to my rescue. [Lavan swoons like a 10 year old girl] My hero(ine)!

[Bozco shakes his head]

i figure see what happens - if she doesn\'t like your cousin then it won\'t last too long

if thats the case and she comes back to you as she has done already then there is nothing to worry about - but something you should do is talk to your friend about the fact that you think he is soooo lucky to be going out with her and you wish that you were that lucky - so if you happen to get togther it won\'t be a shock to him

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Never fight over a female. They are grown and can take care of themselvse. If they are wanting you to fight over them, more and likely they are just wanting to use you for a puppet anyways.

Also, never fight another guy for a girl. The female will clearly pick the one she rather be with. He is not forcing her. He is only doin\' the same thing you are. Tryin\' to be with someone he is attracted to. In the end, it is her choice.

Some women love to just see men fight for them. It assures them they are wanted and gives them an ego boost. Don\'t let them have it.

My girlfriend has tried to get me to do it and I refuse. When a guy flirts with her, I let her handle it. I tell her, she is grown and if she decides to date them, she knows we are over, but she has that choice. She also has the choice to state she is currently with someone and not interested. But, I am not goin\' to approach and get violent with someone simply because they are attracted to my girlfriend.

Then again, I would not get mad at a guy if I found out he was sleeping with my g/f. I would get mad at her. Unless he was a friend of mine and knew she was with me. Otherwise, he was doing what is natrual and she is in the wrong.

Bottom line: Don\'t let them trick you into fighting with other males just because they can.

Depending on the situation, you should but in most cases you shouldn\'t fight for us unless you are hell bent on wanting us to date you.   Also Guys AREN\'T the only players ^_^ I agree with that like 120% I know alot of my friends who date 2 guys at a time and cheat on both the guys with another man which is sad.