After my last girl, (lived w/ her for 7 years!) I spent a summer on a drinking binge, then I tried to "F" anything that looked good. Even some of my female friends. As soon as I stopped trying, I got a date w/ this hot chick. Then it was overwhelming. On the way home from banging her, I met my current girl, and we\'ve been together for 1 1/2 years now. Chicks dig confidence.