Originally posted by Bozco
From what it sounds like you would not tip for things that are beyond their control. What happens if a server had two luckee\'s. One at two different tables. How the hell could they meet all your needs. Its not possible to have perfect service always, and a lot of times its out of the servers control. And Luckee, treat people as how you want to be treated.
No, it is quite simple. When I goto a resturant, after being seated by the host/hostess. I expect to asked what I would like to drink while the server passes me a menu. I would like them to check and see if I am ready to order after comming back with the drinks in a reasonable amount of time.
I would like them to make sure my water or other drinks are fresh. I would like to be updated if the cooks are a little behind.
After the meal, I dont want to be waiting around all day for the bill. Seems pretty reasonable huh?
As for the Xtra tip, its nice to be smiled at often and act like my business is appreciated instead of like they are doing me a favor. It is nice to be asked during the meal if Im happy or if I need anything else. Its nice after the meal to be asked how it was//etc..Now those are the things that warrant a $10-15 tip for a $35 meal.
Besides, Im not asking for perfect service..Im asking for adequte service. The perfect service are the ones who get the big tips b/c they have gone above and beyond.
As for treating ppl how I want to be treated? Uhm no..sounds like you have been in the bible too much. I treat others as I have been treated by them.