oosevens dilemma (need Advice)

Okay, here\'s my suggestion:  If you still can\'t get this woman off your mind 1 month from now....

...ask Miss Moneypenny how she feels about 3somes.  

Originally posted by Samwise
Don\'t do it man.

what the tell Susan i am Gay and run off with you part ?

wash your hands of her, ooseven

thats the best thing you can do

Originally posted by Sara
Okay, here\'s my suggestion:  If you still can\'t get this woman off your mind 1 month from now....

...ask Miss Moneypenny how she feels about 3somes.  

damn it Sara you know all our male secrets

j/k

p.s.

i don\'t care about the issue anymore.. i have managed to get Sara to mention 3somes



/me waits for the omen to rape him

[nO-One]

Ahhhh don\'t do it buddy. I\'ve seen too many comedies with similar situations. Allthough most of them end well in real life things never end well.

My advice to you.

1st. Sit down in your favourite chair
2nd. Turn on the TV
3rd. Don\'t think about your ex.

It\'ll work

thanks no-one & mm and everyone else

but don\'t worry I am not going to do anything to this Ex

the only thing I was considering doing is to either

• write a short email saying “hi “ (less than 100 words) telling her what i have been up to.
• Or write a email to my mate Colin who is going to marry her sister and get him to say hi

that’s It … I know I am boring but hey I am happyly in love or Lerrvveee with Susan

[Kurt Angle]

There is nothing wrong with contacting her, just make it clear you are engaged to be married and very happy with your life.

[nO-One]

Originally posted by ooseven

• Or write a email to my mate Colin who is going to marry her sister and get him to say hi

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Jebus man, for a second there I thought it said "who is going to marry his sister"

trust me on this man, dont even bother.

id would contact her, i mean you dont have those feelings for her no more, you are still friends i take it?? i mean you are well over her,so would be nice, i know there is atleast 1 ex of mine iwish i still saw and could get in contact with, not cos i still in love with her, but cos she was a very good mate

Sure you could call her and sure it could be ok, but don\'t get near the fire and you won\'t have to worry about a burnt weenie.  If you get my drift.

making contact really does just make things worse every once in a while ill have a dream about my ex and wanna just catch up with her but it goes away after a few days and i feel better not having talked to her

i just wanna add, i had email from peep from friends reunited, some from like when i was 10, so aint seen for 10 years, some as i changed schools i aint seen for like 5 years, and some i not seen in like 4 etc..... i really enjoyed catchin up with them, also have somehow met peep, like when going to college who hadnt seen 4 years, and you know when your younger its a shame you lose some friends cos they move/you move etc.....


i must say aswell i had one email from someone i bearly knew, they were more mate of a mate,, but never knew her, nad i must say i saw my old mate, and she was there as they still mates, and she is prob like one of my better friends

Here\'s my input, if it\'s still worth reading.

I think that you should first talk to Miss Money Penny about your ex.  Reassure your gf that she\'s the one and only and that there is no other.  Then tell her about your dreams that you\'ve been having.  If it\'s absolutely necessary that you see your ex, talk to your gf before you email your ex.  You must get her input, her thoughts, what she feels about the situation.
And if it comes to it, when you meet with your ex (with the permission of your gf), just tie up the loose ends that might still be hanging on your shoulders.  Then catch her up on life and what a wonderful person your gf is.
You do want to keep your distance from you ex (doesn\'t mean that you need to cut all contact with her).  While reintroducing your ex into your life, you need to pamper your gf and show her that nothing can come in between your relationship with your gf.