TheOmen needs your help (beware, this is a relationship help thread)

here\'s the history;

Last Tuesday I had the absolute hottest girl in my group of friends ask me if I had a girlfriend, and if I wanted one.  I told her that I was single and interested.  We went to the movies on Saturday, and it was alot of fun we got along really well etc...  She planned another outing for next weekend, Bowling (which I hate, but will bite my lip and go anyways).  When I dropped her off at her house she invited me in to watch a movie, and when we got in her room she gave me a pretty long hug (15-20 seconds).  She lives at home and her home thought it was a bit late to watch a movie, so we decided to watch the movie another time.  When she walked me out we talked a bit, and she told me how she has a bad-girl in her, and she gave me a hug when I left.

She called me today and we had a short conversation, and I\'ll see her tomarrow at College.  

Here\'s the problem;

I\'m usually used to girls that practically rape me on the first date, and this date was a pleasant change of pace.  However seeing as though this is the first date I\'ve ever been on in my adult years in which my body wasn\'t ravenged, I\'m wondering how serious she is about me.  Hopefully some of you out there have more experience with \'slower relationship\' and can help me out.

Ask Vapor, his relationships seem to move pretty slow

Seriously, I\'d like to help, but my experience is limited to high school relationships.  *shrug*

[Jumpman]

If she really told you she was a bad girl, then chances are she likes you and you should definitely go for it with her.

Ask Vapor, his relationships seem to move pretty slow

Well, he would need to have been in a relationship to know how slow they move first.

2 thoughts:

I think her "bad girl" comment may have meant that she wanted to be one of those girls that "raped" you on the first date but she may have just been too shy, or too scared of what you would think of her if she did "that" on the first date.

In this case the relationship may have the seriousnes of any of the other relationships you have had.

On the other hand, you said that you were previously friends before you went out so maybe she already has a feel for your personality and realizes that she wants a long relationship with you so she did not want to "rape" you on the first date but she still wanted you to know she likes to "have fun".

Also... what was your response to her "bad girl" comment?

I gave a vague comment, it was pretty much an "oh really?" responce.

Jumpman and Shockwaves can both eat my penis.

[Living-In-Clip]

She stated she\'s a bad girl? Did you offer to spank her? No? Then you missed a potenial lay!

[Jumpman]

I\'m a bad boy...

*nudge nudge*

[Bobs_Hardware]

I like Kimarhi\'s thoughts myself.

*threatens Jumpman with a stick*

[Living-In-Clip]

er...uhm..

Vapor Snake:

I\'ll spank you, Jumpy!

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For the love of god ppl


does every thread have to turn out soo...umm.. gay?

[Jumpman]

*plays with TheGr81\'s penis*

You dont touch the GR81\' s GR81!

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Interesting...this friend of your\'s must have some alternative motive.  Did she break up with someone just recently?  If that\'s the case, she\'s looking for revenge.  That\'s one theory that I have.
I find her "bad girl" statement odd.  She\'s from your group of friends and she just started to notice you?  And even if you two weren\'t friends before the first date is it normal for a girl to invite a guy into her room late at night and start hugging him?  I wouldn\'t know.
From what I can get in your little blurb, she\'s not looking for anything serious.  Maybe a friend with benefits type of relationship.
If you hope to start a serious relationship in this point in your life and with this girl, I suggest you talk to her about it since it\'s so soon in the dating scene.  Tell her what kind of relationship you\'d like to start, since you\'re just beginning your adult years.  You might want to tell her that you want to make the first years of your adulthood like a new beginning, a time to become mature.  Maybe you want to mention that you\'re not looking for a sexual relationship too, if that is the case.
Be forewarned: there are some girls who fear the idea of commitment just as much as guys.

Hope this helps.  Good luck!