Originally posted by SirMystiq
Your opinions about....
Sex: Think back when you were 15 or 16, you and your sweetie have been to first, second, third base...but never home. She starts to indirectly tell you that she wants the subject to be brought up by you, how the hell do you start a conversation with your chick about sex?!
Love:
Think back when you were 15 or 16. You used to tell your chica that you love her all the time, then she dumps you b/c she thinks you were taking it too seriously. Now you have another girlfriend, been together for a while now, she says that she loves you in an email but she also says she is too scared to say it sometimes. How do you respond to that? You are pretty sure that you love her too, but you are to scared that she might play you like other girls and break up with you because of the whole serious factor. Or she might start feeling worried that she feels like shes in love, but you never say it, for the above reasons. Do you take the risk and tell her? How? When? Where?
Communication:
Does having a good communication really affect a relationship? If you were too scared to bring up any of the above subjects does that mean you have no communication or trust in your partner??
Just tought I should ask.........
Easy, you just bring it up. Sex is very natural and shouldnt be treated as taboo.
Two, I dont know about the girls you have dealt with, but with me at your age, it was never about being too serious, it was about not being serious enough.
That being said, rarely is there a thing called love at 15 or 16. Only perceived love which usually is nothing but lust or infatuation. As far as a time, you will know when, how, and where without even having to think about it. If you have to think about love, you dont love them.
Basically yeah...
Communication, trust, and honesty are the most important factors in ANY type of relationship whether it is friendship, business, or a deeper relationship.
Without all 3, it wont survive happily.
