in all honesty everyone made some good points. But i have to say in quddus defense that all of us "guys" have all had that playa mentality when it came to women. I mean we all talked about that girl that we wanted to hit or how many women we\'ve had sex with.. it\'s all good. To me it\'s nothing wrong if you want to just hit & run & just chill. i have a friend of mine that\'s doing just that..he\'s got his own apt,nice whip & is just having a fun time turning women out.
that said i think quddus might have gotten burned by a few women,.not literally,;) just by some of his comments. but some of you guys are also scaring me, with all this chasing women down looking for love. i use to do the same thing quddus is doing..as far as just sleeping with women & such,..but i got tired of that..not to mention not all of those chicks were hit & runs (some you had to wine & dine to get some:D) anyway when i stopped i didn\'t try to "look" for love i just let it come to me. It was a good decision too,..i really didn\'t want my kids seeing me with all these different women..some of you may not believe this but kids really need stability in their lives