i told u already.. "go into your control panel for your gfx card and there should be a refresh rate overrid"
I doubt nvidia would make to many changes to the forceware drivers not allowing 6800GT owners from changing their refresh rates.
Right Click on desktop, properties, settings, advanced, choose 6800GT or whatever the tab is. On the side there should be a little menu system.. look for something like "Refresh Override" Then choose what refresh rate you want certain resolutions to run at.