It all depends on the reason you listen to music too.
Some people use it as a relaxant, or an escape--there are styles and genres of music for that, ex: ambient, classical, bluegrass.
Some people use it as a social medium; a way to have fun. The phenomenon of how it feels good just singing along to the lyrics of a popular song with someone else, ex: most of modern day pop, or, rap music like 50 cent. You guys are talking about "feeling" music. I think \'In Da\' Club\' came out was such a hit just because it had that community feeling.
But some people, like me, listen to music because it is educational. Music can be intellectually and culturally enriching, but in my opinion, 50 cent is neither. You need good lyrics to get that message across (if you even have one).
This is like debating politics. Different strokes for different folks right?