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« on: September 07, 2007, 02:23:01 PM »
http://uk.youtube.com/watch?v=yTqAghbuiVM

take your pick.

I\'m not sure.
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« Reply #1 on: September 07, 2007, 02:37:45 PM »
hahah..Every other second im like "thats totally a dude"...."na thats totally a chick"

if i had to pick, i say female.
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« Reply #2 on: September 07, 2007, 02:46:53 PM »
female

voice sounds like a female.  wears earrings so might be female.  Also, I think that\'s a girl name.

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« Reply #3 on: September 07, 2007, 02:48:31 PM »
so is lilly savage
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« Reply #4 on: September 07, 2007, 07:16:07 PM »
half a year and she\'s only lost 18 pounds.  fatty
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« Reply #5 on: September 07, 2007, 08:24:42 PM »
That\'s some really slow progress.

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« Reply #6 on: September 07, 2007, 08:38:52 PM »
but to me in my opinion sure that is a slow but big and difficult progress she made.  Hats off to her.

How many fat people do you see successful loose weight.  maintaining the weight and prevent from getting fatter is hard, but trying to lose weight is harder.

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« Reply #7 on: September 07, 2007, 08:40:23 PM »
That\'s because fat people are the way they are for a reason. No...it is surprisingly easy...but there is a lot of misinformation out there regarding fat loss. Staying consistent is also important. And losing weight does not require a "diet". It requires a lifestyle change. Their lifestyle got them fat in the first place, so they need to stop doing what got them there.
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« Reply #8 on: September 07, 2007, 08:52:32 PM »
you have to understand that nearly all babies aren\'t born being fat.  There are many circumstances that turned they out like this and it\'s really hard for them to change.

Such as their parents are fat and since that\'s how their parents lifestyle are.  they raised their kids like that too by eating a lot and especially unhealthy and junk food.  the babies grow up fat and are used to eating too much that it\'s hard for them to change to a different lifestyle since that was how they were raised and develop and mature as such.

Or a different circumstance like maybe its their culture that eat a lot of fatty food that they were pressure to eat and known to eat that food.

Or maybe there were raised eating right, but as they grew older, they probably fell into depression because of something happened and eating was their way of coping with depression or a way to escape.  and the depression last too long and occurred too often or something that they ate too much to deal with it.  So now they get fat.  and its harder to get back to how they were.  And if depression doesn\'t go away...then, i guess it sucks for them.  maybe they need some sort of emotional support and someone who can understand them and helps them.

Or might be genetic that even if they eat right, they still gain weight or gain weight faster than people who eat more fatty food than they do.

Or maybe it a combination of  the above mentioned.  or it could be something else that i don\'t know that cause them to gained weight...

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« Reply #9 on: September 07, 2007, 09:12:49 PM »
I\'m aware of all of that, thanks.

Yes...fat parents teach their kids poor eating habits. 65% of this country is overweight...and only 10% of those have some genetic to blame it on...meaning 90% of the people blaming it on genetics are just lazy fat asses. Yes there are a lot of circumstances. But most of them can lose weight. You can lose weight eating "fatty food". You can also get morbidly obese eating "healthy". It\'s about thermodynamics. Calories in Vs. Calories out. There are other mundane details as well...but I\'ve helped quite a few people lose weight. It isn\'t difficult. It\'s about desiring it badly enough to change yourself. Most people just enjoy food too much to change themselves. Food is good. Yay. I don\'t mind fat people who are happy. But fat people who complain about being fat while munching down a few Twinkies I have no sympathy for. Those with genetic issues I do feel bad for because they can\'t help it. And it ultimately comes down to choice...the choice to change yourself. Yes...kids grow up being taught poor eating habits. They have the choice to change themselves. 20 years ago...there were almost no fat people in China. Now 25% of the people in China are overweight or obese. This makes China now the fattest country on the planet in regards to the amount of overweight people there are in that country.

It takes big changes to lose weight...not little ones. I\'m already aware of everything you stated. I\'ve just grown tired of all the BS. There are some people who are sincerely trying to lose weight, but they don\'t have the right knowledge to get them to where they are trying so hard to go. The BS in the media and magazines are keeping people fat who are actually trying to lose weight.

They could always just...move more and eat less...that helps a lot.

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« Reply #10 on: September 07, 2007, 09:38:04 PM »
that\'s why i\'m glad i have a wifey that stay\'s in shape....i mean normally i\'d work out 3 times a week, but since she goes out practically everyday on her treadmill, i\'m right there beside her hittin\' the weights....and while i\'m not super-big,...i like the physique i see when i look in the mirror,.....so i work out for about a half hour to a hour everyday....
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« Reply #11 on: September 07, 2007, 09:48:39 PM »
You might actually get a bigger physique if you stop working out every single day. 3-4 times a week is more than enough. You need rest days to give your body time to heal and repair.

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« Reply #12 on: September 07, 2007, 10:23:07 PM »
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...It takes big changes to lose weight...not little ones. I\'m already aware of everything you stated. I\'ve just grown tired of all the BS. There are some people who are sincerely trying to lose weight, but they don\'t have the right knowledge to get them to where they are trying so hard to go. The BS in the media and magazines are keeping people fat who are actually trying to lose weight.

They could always just...move more and eat less...that helps a lot.
Also, like you just mentioned, environment also plays a role here too.  If you were raise having bad eating habits from your parents.  I think neglect and lack of motivation can cause them to gain weight too.  Say, if the parents made the child eats a lot, and didn\'t teach them any physical activities.  They gained weight.

Like stay home all the time watching tv and play video games but rarely or never take the kids out for a walk or play on the playground or on the park.  the kids get fat.  Neglect and just leave the kids home nearly most of the time can be bad too as they don\'t know what the world outside is like.  Since they are kids, they need to have fun outside to get fresh air and sunlight and physical activies so kids can be kids.  So they learn many and get many benefits by doing that too like they are physically, mentally, an emotionally healthier that way, know what the world outside is like, learn how to interact and socialize with other kids.  I think that could be of great benefits as they will grow up happy, healthy, and humble.

Which will lead them to have a successful life in the future like success in school, work, marriage, family, friends, relative, handle other situation better as they brains are healthier from getting a good amount of sunlight, fresh air, and physical activities as a child growing up and knowing how to interact with other.

Other benefits include making better and right decisions for themselves, and if they made bad one, its easier for them to learn from it and prevent it from happening again.  They are less likely and much harder to get physically, mental, and emotional illnesses like depression for instance if the child was raised properly and appropriatedly.  again, the big 3 words are:  happy, healthy, and humble.

of course, same could be said if they go to preschool or kindergarden before they start first grade so they can  have fun and learn to interact with other kids and stuff.

You see, if they were raised improperly, they would get fat and once they are fat.  its hard to get in shape as the works to get in shape are hard and painful.  and since they aren\'t familiar with outdoor or physical activities since they were never taught or motivated as a child growing up.  it would be harder too.

Also, once they are grown up, works, and other busy schedules might be in the way for them to loose weight if they are fat.

Imagine a mom or a dad who is fat have to work 8 - 10 hours a day, then went home to take care of the kids and do choirs that he or she don\'t have much time for themselves.
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« Reply #13 on: September 07, 2007, 10:24:26 PM »
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You might actually get a bigger physique if you stop working out every single day. 3-4 times a week is more than enough. You need rest days to give your body time to heal and repair.


really?...well from time to time i may miss like two or three days in a row, but when i do, and i go back to work out, the weights feel like 1000 lbs!....but after the first few reps my body is used to the weight again. y\'know i tell the wifey that she doesn\'t have to work out everyday, she\'s in excellent shape, but she tells me that men can become fat and it\'s ok...nobody is gonna say anything about it. But a woman? she states if a woman becomes fat you\'ll hear about it, or at social events you\'ll hear "did you see soinso\'s wife? she\'s big as hell!"

And i agree a little,... i mean we always see the fat outta shape husband with the model type wifey, *even tho mostly it\'s because the said hubby has some loot*,but when we see that we don\'t even focus on how big the husband is, everybody pays attention to the "trophy" wife.....but that doesn\'t mean i\'ma let myself go and become that fat hubby.
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« Reply #14 on: September 07, 2007, 10:36:26 PM »
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Also, like you just mentioned, environment also plays a role here too.  If you were raise having bad eating habits from your parents.  I think neglect and lack of motivation can cause them to gain weight too.  Say, if the parents made the child eats a lot, and didn\'t teach them any physical activities.  They gained weight.

Like stay home all the time watching tv and play video games but rarely or never take the kids out for a walk or play on the playground or on the park.  the kids get fat.  Neglect and just leave the kids home nearly most of the time can be bad too as they don\'t know what the world outside is like.  Since they are kids, they need to have fun outside to get fresh air and sunlight and physical activies so kids can be kids.  So they learn many and get many benefits by doing that too like they are physically, mentally, an emotionally healthier that way, know what the world outside is like, learn how to interact and socialize with other kids.  I think that could be of great benefits as they will grow up happy, healthy, and humble.

Which will lead them to have a successful life in the future like success in school, work, marriage, family, friends, relative, handle other situation better as they brains are healthier from getting a good amount of sunlight, fresh air, and physical activities as a child growing up and knowing how to interact with other.

Other benefits include making better and right decisions for themselves, and if they made bad one, its easier for them to learn from it and prevent it from happening again.  They are less likely and much harder to get physically, mental, and emotional illnesses like depression for instance if the child was raised properly and appropriatedly.  again, the big 3 words are:  happy, healthy, and humble.

of course, same could be said if they go to preschool or kindergarden before they start first grade so they can  have fun and learn to interact with other kids and stuff.

You see, if they were raised improperly, they would get fat and once they are fat.  its hard to get in shape as the works to get in shape are hard and painful.  and since they aren\'t familiar with outdoor or physical activities since they were never taught or motivated as a child growing up.  it would be harder too.

Also, once they are grown up, works, and other busy schedules might be in the way for them to loose weight if they are fat.

Imagine a mom or a dad who is fat have to work 8 - 10 hours a day, then went home to take care of the kids and do choirs that he or she don\'t have much time for themselves.
You\'re taking a really long time to write the same exact thing. Those are also excuses...not reasons. I know a woman who is working two jobs, has kids, is gone all day...and is studying or her Masters degree and still finds the time to stay in shape. It takes dedication. Don\'t make excuses for people. It doesn\'t help them get any less fat. You either do it or you don\'t. Justifying fatness is not justification at all. It\'s failure.


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really?...well from time to time i may miss like two or three days in a row, but when i do, and i go back to work out, the weights feel like 1000 lbs!....but after the first few reps my body is used to the weight again. y\'know i tell the wifey that she doesn\'t have to work out everyday, she\'s in excellent shape, but she tells me that men can become fat and it\'s ok...nobody is gonna say anything about it. But a woman? she states if a woman becomes fat you\'ll hear about it, or at social events you\'ll hear "did you see soinso\'s wife? she\'s big as hell!"

And i agree a little,... i mean we always see the fat outta shape husband with the model type wifey, *even tho mostly it\'s because the said hubby has some loot*,but when we see that we don\'t even focus on how big the husband is, everybody pays attention to the "trophy" wife.....but that doesn\'t mean i\'ma let myself go and become that fat hubby.
No, it\'s no okay for the guy to get fat while the woman stays in shape. That is selfish bullshit.
« Last Edit: September 07, 2007, 10:40:37 PM by Evi »

 

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