Author Topic: Japan\'s got the right idea (Read 1268 times)

Titan · « **on:** October 01, 2007, 09:56:10 PM »

i\'m actually amazed no bank anywhere else has done this. Cliffs Notes: a bank in Japan is now giving out divorce loans to help pay legal fees and to help get people\'s lives back in order. kinda cool imo

http://news.yahoo.com/s/nm/20071001/od_nm/japan_divorce_dc

Evi · « **Reply #1 on:** October 01, 2007, 10:17:33 PM »

That\'s a uh...helpful...idea at least.

Or people should just not divorce and make better plans with decisions that effect the rest of their fucking lives. :thumb:

Bobs_Hardware · « **Reply #2 on:** October 01, 2007, 10:44:03 PM »

I totally agree with Evi. Marrying a woman whom you intend to spend the rest of your life with, live together, save for a house together, get a dog together, have kids together, send them to school, have investments with and have grandchildren with only to have them end up despising you and cheating on you, ultimately leaving you is a myopic indescretion with no excuse for.

Evi · « **Reply #3 on:** October 01, 2007, 10:49:26 PM »

Quote from: Bobs_Hardware

I totally agree with Evi. Marrying a woman whom you intend to spend the rest of your life with, live together, save for a house together, get a dog together, have kids together, send them to school, have investments with and have grandchildren with only to have them end up despising you and cheating on you, ultimately leaving you is a myopic indescretion with no excuse for.

http://webster.com/cgi-bin/dictionary?va=indiscretion

Bobs_Hardware · « **Reply #4 on:** October 02, 2007, 12:05:10 AM »

You\'re still the bigger idiot.

You should think before making glib comments with such a smug demeanour.

Evi · « **Reply #5 on:** October 02, 2007, 01:12:01 AM »

Eh, I just did that because I enjoy reading your responses. They always make me laugh, even if they\'re at my expense.

Titan · « **Reply #6 on:** October 02, 2007, 02:17:17 PM »

i kinda have to agree with bob in this issue. you may marry with the intent to spend the rest of your life with someone but then she may become a bitch by cheating on you or whatever.

Evi · « **Reply #7 on:** October 02, 2007, 03:21:53 PM »

^^

Yeah...been there.

Titan · « **Reply #8 on:** October 02, 2007, 05:02:22 PM »

Quote from: Evi

^^

Yeah...been there.

this happened before you two got married, right?

Evi · « **Reply #9 on:** October 02, 2007, 05:58:07 PM »

Yeah. My first fiance was murdered and I was with her for four years, so things haven\'t exactly been pleasant for me in the area of relationships. R.I.P. 2003. My second fiance just turned out to be a cheating skankoid. Stupid bitch. I\'ve never really loved anyone like my first fiance. Just isn\'t the same. =\\

clips · « **Reply #10 on:** October 02, 2007, 06:43:27 PM »

Quote from: Evi

Yeah. My first fiance was murdered and I was with her for four years, so things haven\'t exactly been pleasant for me in the area of relationships. R.I.P. 2003. My second fiance just turned out to be a cheating skankoid. Stupid bitch. I\'ve never really loved anyone like my first fiance. Just isn\'t the same. =\\

damn....sorry to hear that \'bout your first fiance....as far as relationships go, i\'ve had my share of cheatin\' chicken-heads in the past...that s**t can be painful....especially if it comes outta nowhere....but didn\'t you post a pic of your second fiance?...if i remember correctly, she was fine as hell!...:thumb:...i think i mentioned before that my 1st wife looked like vanity(prince\'s ex-gf) and when she cheated on me, it was one of those things that came outta nowhere, i mean we would joke, laugh....sex was off the chains....and then she cheated,....i was broke down for a minute during that small chapter in my life.....we even tried to make it work after the fact, but after somebody does that to you, the relationship is never really the same,....*she was really tryin\' to make it work, but i just wasn\'t feelin\' it*.....so we just went our seperate ways...

Evi · « **Reply #11 on:** October 02, 2007, 07:02:19 PM »

Yeah this came out of nowhere for me as well. It\'s pretty fucked up.

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but after somebody does that to you, the relationship is never really the same

I know what you mean. She even came back to me crying that she made a big mistake and blah, blah, blah cuz the dude she cheated on me with was a huge douche bag that treated her like shit. I told her there\'s not a snowball\'s chance in hell of us ever getting back together. What she did was royally fucked.

But it\'s life, and we move on. It\'s not like I come from a bad example of marriage in my family...I mean my parents have been together for 23 years or so and are still together, so yeah. And I\'ve never seen a better couple than my bro and his wifey. I just need to give it time. I\'m sure I\'ll find someone. All we can do is get stronger and learn from past relationships. I burned all the pics of me and my ex though. I want to erase her from my memory. Don\'t want any reminders.

Anyway...sorry about your BS relationships too, clips. But we all have our own shit to deal with. It\'s life.

Titan · « **Reply #12 on:** October 02, 2007, 08:17:47 PM »

my ex and i went our separate ways after a lot of drama in our post-breakup time. she tried to get back together with me and she ended up hooking up with other guys so we were always in fights because she lied to me about it and shit. the girl i\'m currently involved with i\'m even more in love with than my ex. i loved my ex a lot. she was my first love and that love will never change but my girlfriend now is pretty much my world. we\'ve been best friends for years. i can tell her anything, good or bad and we always have found comfort in each other. over the summer we just fell really hard for each other and like a month ago we decided to get into a relationship, even though we\'re 250 miles apart. i feel like i found my soulmate. i just hope things don\'t go sour because not only will i lose a girlfriend but also my best friend. we have problems which is a topic for another post or day.

Paul2 · « **Reply #13 on:** October 02, 2007, 09:05:09 PM »

hmmm, i suppose your ex and your new girlfriend are your left and right hand?

you broke up with your left hand even though you love it a lot to be with your right hand where you can find comfort?

Blade · « **Reply #14 on:** October 02, 2007, 09:07:04 PM »

It\'s kind of like that with me, Paul, but literally.

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Author Topic: Japan\'s got the right idea (Read 1268 times)