Well obviously sex won\'t make or break the relationship, but i think sex plays a part, me personally i try to make sure she\'s satisfied first then towards the end i\'m jamming the nightstick to her spine,...i don\'t pound on it from the moment i start, and some women may like that, but like Jar stated me and my wife know each-other so well, and regardless of that i still try to make our encounters intense.
I still think women want longevity tho, if your lady starts off lookin\' good, then afterwards her eyeliner is running down her face and you knocked that perm outta her hair, then it\'s mission accomplished, scratch marks on your back are also a good sign of you hittin\' it right....again sex isn\'t everything in a relationship because i\'ve spoken to plenty of women that have stated something like "the sex was good but i can\'t be with him (for whatever reason)" and they would still end up leaving them....
Of course work schedules, kids and every day life can affect the sex life intensity, and every sexual encounter isn\'t going to be off the chains, but i at least try to make it last longer than 25 minutes....quickies are good too tho,..and that\'ll be when the wifey will just have on a tank top with some fitted sweatpants on and we\'ll just run upstairs real quick so i could break her off a sample...that will be the only time when i\'m done in 7 - 10 minutes...well that and when i haven\'t had any in like over a week....