Why are girls so...

We lived our dream together for more than 8 months. Everything started in a cold night of Feb. We met and our lives changed forever, in a sense or another.
When the cold arrived again, as if our souls were linked to warmth, something happened. From day to night she changed. No more words, no more laughs. I just wanted a reason but there was no one.
Then, few days ago, I discovered she was with another guy, cheating me as if I was nothing but a toy to play with.
I shouldn\'t, I know, but I can feel how my heart dies little by little as keepsakes and scent pass away.

[Living-In-Clip]

It sucks man. I mean, that is all I can say. Almost every guy goes through this at some point in their life. I can give you all the advice in the world, the whole "don\'t think about her doing the other guy", "get rid of her stuff" and other cliche\' canned advice, but the truth is, none of that works. You just have to let time pass and suffer. There is many phases to being cheated on. You\'re going to be on a roller coaster. Eventually, anger will settle in and when it does, that\'s good. You have every right to be angry. Once that anger passes, you\'ll be ready to start the next phase. Moving on.
Good luck with that.

It sucks man. I mean, that is all I can say. Almost every guy goes through this at some point in their life. I can give you all the advice in the world, the whole "don\'t think about her doing the other guy", "get rid of her stuff" and other cliche\' canned advice, but the truth is, none of that works. You just have to let time pass and suffer. There is many phases to being cheated on. You\'re going to be on a roller coaster. Eventually, anger will settle in and when it does, that\'s good. You have every right to be angry. Once that anger passes, you\'ll be ready to start the next phase. Moving on.
Good luck with that.

I think you\'re 100% right. Advices and help will have zero results. Just time and time. That\'s all.

Thanx a lot man.

[§ôµÏG®ïñD]

You\'ll get over it. Took me some time but once you do you\'ll come to realise that she wasn\'t worth your time and meet a lot more better chicks.

Deciding on which one to be with, that can be a problem.


It\'s simple man, anyone with the ability to cheat will always have it. She\'ll do it again, i promise you that.
You\'ll end up havin the last laugh. She\'ll end up with multiple kids and no partner and you\'ll have the right one and be happy. :thumb:

[clips]

It\'s true...everybody goes thru this s**t....alot of women like to kick dirt on men saying that we\'re dogs, but alot of us are also dedicated. Trust,... you will get the last laugh. My first wifey cheated on me then wanted me back, but if you ever try to work it out with a person that cheated on you, it\'ll always be in the back of your mind when the guy was hittin\' it...so it never worked out for me.

The next chickenhead cheated on me with multiple guys, and i was heated at first, but immediately afterwards i started meeting so many women...waaay better than her...and she ended up with some dude that looked like a broke down "buster rhymes" with dreads with three missing teeth in the front of his grill and looked like he smoked weed 24/7...and he ended up stealing some jewlry from her.

Then she too wanted me back...so funny.....my thing is whenever a chick cheats on me that\'s it..i cut them loose...there\'s too many other hotties in the world to be recycling the loser that cheated on you...sheeit...let that a$$ go...it\'ll be hard at first, but eventually you\'ll get over her. Like others have stated, you will find somebody that will be ten-times better than her...:fro:

And even if you don\'t, being alone for awhile can be good for you too..it has it\'s quirks...come and go as you please, you can work on gettin\' your own apt, or work on other issues or projects than have been on the back burner....i feel for you tho, and i know it\'s easier said than done, ultimately time heals all wounds, but you\'ll get over this whole situation....:thumb:

[GmanJoe]

Punch her in the poon.

And then kick her ass out.

[Titan]

Think of this as a way to go out and meet newer and better chicks. There is always a girl that is better. I dated my high school sweetheart and we were in love. We were seeing each other for years on and off. She went to college and started hanging out with this other guy. She said if she didn\'t dump me she was going to cheat on me (which I\'m sure she did anyway). I was devastated. Time passed and I got better. Took a long time but I got over it. Met cooler chicks, improved my own life. She would have held me back. Looking at her now, she is a shell of when I dated her. Other girls I\'ve dated that broke my heart were like that too. Its definitely satisfying to see them miserable with some ugly guy who doesn\'t treat them right and you are with a better looking girl who wants to be with you. Hang in there buddy. Time will heal your wounds and you\'ll find your dream girl. Just gotta be patient and looking. Things happen for a reason.

I know I\'m late but sorry to hear Adan. I\'ve been in somewhat the same boat before and grew into a much better & more mature person because of it.

Young & single right? Seriously consider moving to a big city. You\'ll be surrounded by new people, new places, and new opportunities. Escaping doesn\'t heal the pain but definitely eases it, and for many is the quickest way to move on.

[GmanJoe]

Blowjobs in strip joints can help ease the pain.

[Titan]

Blowjobs in strip joints can help ease the pain.

So does the penicillin you\'ll need afterwards.

You are being a little overdramatic. Even though I can understand why you feel this way, it\'s not good for you.

You had a great time together but things changed or you weren\'t made for each other to begin with. It\'s ok, things will calm down, you\'ll feel ready to find a new girl and when you do you will have fun. She may even be the right one if you are lucky and if she\'s not you\'ll still have a great time together while it lasts. That\'s how mature relationships are.

The only problem I see here is that she stopped loving you but she didn\'t tell you; instead she cheated on you. That\'s just not right, but as long as you remember that not all women/people act like that you\'ll be fine.

Think about it this way: now you are free to meet a nice girl that would truly love you. You have a new chance.

Be positive, k?

[Jumpman]

Feel what you feel bro. Just let time heal and move on.

I encountered a similar situation recently. Fucking sucks. Sent me into a depression. Some people can just move on from one relationship to the next but not me, I always linger on the shit that went wrong and it haunts me.

Find a new girl asap, take your mind off things.

[Titan]

I think the reason people jump from one relationship to the next is to ease the pain. People tend to just jump into another one because it makes them feel better about the other loss. It makes them feel like they are over their ex but all they are doing is hiding behind it to give themselves the illusion that they\'ve moved on. Known way too many people that broke up with someone and jumped right into the next relationship and were still bitching about their last one.

[Jumpman]

Someone jump to hide their loss, but hey, if it makes them feel better, I\'m all for it.

[clips]

^^^That\'s true, but it\'s kinda unfair to the other person...unless you let them know from the jump that this thing isn\'t going to be serious or that you\'re not looking for anything right now, they could get the impression that you\'re really into them.

Me personally when i was cheated on, i was heated, and at one point even tried to make it work with the person that cheated on me, but it just never felt right...all i could see was somebody else airing it out with some stiff backshots every time i was around her.

So once you cheat on me, i can never go back to you,..i don\'t care how fine you are....there\'s too many hotties out there that really have their s**t together than to be worrying about a past chickenhead.