So I grabbed three games, nba 2k14, killzone and BF4.
First off, the console is very snappy and well thought out. If it didn't have a sony logo on it you cod mistake it for an apple product. Things just make sense. The controller is amazing, far and away better than anything from last gen. Great feel and very sensitive. You can almost be as accurate as a mouse and keyboard, almost.
All the games look amazing. Nba 2k14 may be the most realistic of the bunch. Many times during the game you really feel like it's recorded video. Great animations and physics.
KZ3 was a little bit of a visual let down, I dont know why but so far it feels just a little meh. I'm only about ten minutes in though.
BF4 looks damned near perfect. High end pc's may be Ble to do better, but it would take a very critical eye to see the difference.
Overall, a good purchase, and I'll have a few other games like NFS and AC4 to keep me busy until second son.