Originally posted by Living-In-Clip
Never fight over a female. They are grown and can take care of themselvse. If they are wanting you to fight over them, more and likely they are just wanting to use you for a puppet anyways.
Also, never fight another guy for a girl. The female will clearly pick the one she rather be with. He is not forcing her. He is only doin\' the same thing you are. Tryin\' to be with someone he is attracted to. In the end, it is her choice.
Some women love to just see men fight for them. It assures them they are wanted and gives them an ego boost. Don\'t let them have it.
My girlfriend has tried to get me to do it and I refuse. When a guy flirts with her, I let her handle it. I tell her, she is grown and if she decides to date them, she knows we are over, but she has that choice. She also has the choice to state she is currently with someone and not interested. But, I am not goin\' to approach and get violent with someone simply because they are attracted to my girlfriend.
Then again, I would not get mad at a guy if I found out he was sleeping with my g/f. I would get mad at her. Unless he was a friend of mine and knew she was with me. Otherwise, he was doing what is natrual and she is in the wrong.
Bottom line: Don\'t let them trick you into fighting with other males just because they can.
I agree totally, my girl friend is a pain sometimes, she starts looking at other guys, then she meets some guy at work, spends 2 weeks working on a project with him and next thing you know she is talking about that guy all the time, i mean I’m makin\' out with her, and the next thing out of her mouth is "X did this" and "X did that" and "X went to MIT" etc... How many guys would either be pissed or jealous at that point? I\'m not, I just nod my head and say "How interesting, good for him". Women can play you like no one can. IMO. But I still love em.
