From what I\'ve seen and how being gay is I think you aren\'t born gay. How the hell would personal preference be something your born with.
Actually, some believe personal preferences are somewhat predetermined by your genes. This is evident in studies of seperated-at-birth identical twins.
Which would mean that our personal preferences are indeed somewhat controlled by our genes.
But that\'s a whole other argument.
Think of how our genes automatically make it so we\'re meant to prefer the opposite sex. What if some sort of fault in this led to a person holding a different preference? There must be some sort of natural reason for our minds automatic preference of women, could there not be a natural reason why some prefer men?