Doh, that might be my baby!!!

[videoholic]

Here is a great new law in Florida.  If you want to put your baby up for adoption you have to put your name in the paper and say who all your sex partners are over the last 12 months.  Just in case they don\'t know they have a baby and may want to try and block the adoption.

On one side this is a good thing because the guy should have rights to the baby too and if they don\'t know about the kid then it really isn\'t fair.

But on the other hand, WRAP THAT RASCAL!!!  Don\'t bring freaking babies into the world if you can\'t take care of them people!!!

http://www.gopbi.com/partners/pbpost/epaper/editions/wednesday/local_news_d3053aa9159f91f61092.html

im adopted

[Kurt Angle]

It will take a lot of paper for a lot of people to name all their partners!

[videoholic]

are you really adopted?  I have had two different girlfriends who were adopted.  That is pretty cool.  One went and found her mom.  Was exactly what she thought.  A cheerleader who got knocked up by the football star.

Or was it a cheerleader who was drunk doing a drunk football star then did  a geek after and forgot about the geek but it was the geek who made her pregnant?

I am indeed adopted, my sister is also.

I was adopted as soon as I was born so my parents I have I consider my parents. I no desire to search out my birth-parents. Who says they even wanna hear from me? The only thing I know about them is that they were 15 when they had me. Thats pretty young, I dont blame them... shit at least I wasnt aborted.

My dad has some documents that have my birth-parents names on them, but I havent ever bothered to look.


Now, my sister, is another story, I have a feeling that someday she will search her birth-parents out.

[videoholic]

I don\'t know if I would look for birth parents or not.  There are so many good and bad things that can come of it.  

You\'d have to have a very strong relationship with your parents for them not to feel like you are going against them by looking for your birth parents.

If your birth mom was 15 then you are truly in a much better place now.  Although what if she won like a lottery or something a couple years after spitting you out.

How old were you when your parents told you?  Which one told you?  How did they tell you?

Unless that\'s hard for you to talk about that is.

not at all man, im fine with it... heres the story.

for the record, the people that raised me are my parents, the people that gave birth to me are my birth-parents (just wanna clear that up)


so my parents got married when they were 26, and i think there was something wrong with my moms tubes or something and they couldnt have kids of thier own. so they decided to adopt. problem was, there was a HUGE waiting list here in wisconsin... so my parents waited 8 years. then after 8 years they got me, straight from birth. now they wanted a son and a daughter, so we waited another 2 years and got my sister.

as i said, im totally cool with it, i think because my paresnts explained it to me and my sister from the day we could understand it. they were completetly open with us the whole time. they actually excpected more problems, like me and my sister having a hard time dealing, but we dealt fine.

untill recently, now my sister is a little curious, she went and found out her birth-parents real names (me and her have different birth-parents)

thats the first step, the next step is a shitload of legal stuff. she hasent gone that far yet but one night me and her were drunk and she told me she wanted to find em.

i on the other hand have no desire to.

my parents are my parents, they gave me the perfect small town USA up-bringing.

i dont blame my birth-parents, shit, they were 15, im glad they had the heart not to abort me. i hope they are doing well, wherever they are, but thats it.

i have great parents.


ok there it is... engaging no?

p.s. i do always make the joke that eric clapton is my dad.

i dont know why... its my guess. let me have it.

[videoholic]

That\'s a long wait for a baby.  No wonder so many people go over seas to adopt.

We have watched shows about adoption and stuff before and you take it for granted sometimes how easy you have it.  I mean all I did was I stuck my penis into my wife and 9 months later out popped a kid.  

We only tried for about 2 months before we struck gold.  

We have several friends who had to do invitro and do the whole shots thing.  They all have kids now, but man having to get a shot every day to keep the baby in your system is a lot of work.  They were all just about to go the adoption route as well.

My parents couldn\'t have a second kid because of my mother\'s tubes.  That was when she was about 32.  I guess that\'s why they love Logan so much.