seriously, man. All kidding aside, I\'ve been in bands with friends for 18 years, and that\'s when you really see yourself getting blown off. How about the day of a gig and your band is shaky, and everyone goes bowling 3 hour before the gig instead of rehearsing. And they don\'t tell you. So you wait and wait, and they show up all hammered, and you et to play the shittiest show ever. Shit happens, and your friends never wipe.