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Offline Luke
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« on: November 25, 2006, 02:06:13 PM »
So, I found out this morning that a cousin, who I was pretty close to, killed himself last night.

The Ol\' shotgun to the face.

I\'m pretty much in a stupor over it. I didn\'t cry... Didn\'t even feel like crying, even though he was a good friend.


I\'m just fucked up over it.


It\'s almost like I\'m pissed at him for doing it.


Anyone else ever have someone close to them do this?

I just feel weird and wanted to see if anyone else ever went through this.
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« Reply #1 on: November 25, 2006, 02:26:22 PM »
7 Stages of grief:

(1) Shock or Disbelief that the loss has occured.
(2) Denial is the stage in which the person refuses to accept the loss has occured.
(3) In the Bargaining stage, the person attempts to reconcile the loss by making deals with other people, sometimes also with Diety.
(4) Guilt is marked by statements of "if only I had done/been . . . ".
(5) Anger is a natural stage everyone must pass. Anger may be directed toward the loss, the person lost, or even Diety.
(6) Depression is a stage that comes and goes throughout the grief process. Resignation at the end of the depression indicates that the truth of the loss has been accepted and the person is ready to move on.
(7) Acceptance and Hope means that you understand your life will never be the same but it will go on with meaning and hope.

Early stage 1 & 2, with some stage 5.  Feeling all of what you are feeling (not crying yet), anger is normal.  A close family member has shocked your family and friends, causing new turmoil and stress in your life.  Acceptance will take a while, but talking about it, especially to family who are suffering the same way will help a lot.

I\'m sorry to hear about your families loss.
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« Reply #2 on: November 25, 2006, 03:52:58 PM »
Wow bud. I never did, but I wish you the best. That\'s about as fucked up as it gets.
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« Reply #3 on: November 25, 2006, 03:56:23 PM »
I have little to no experience in something like this. All I can say is my sympathies are with you and your family and give you my best wishes.
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« Reply #4 on: November 25, 2006, 05:57:05 PM »
I am spechless. The only thing I can say is OMG :eek:
Its crazy how f*cked up our minds can get to do such a thing.
My sympathies and I wish it passes soon.
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« Reply #5 on: November 25, 2006, 09:28:00 PM »
damn son....I feel ya...pm me. I\'ve been exactly there.
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« Reply #6 on: November 25, 2006, 10:07:49 PM »
Quote from: Luke
So, I found out this morning that a cousin, who I was pretty close to, killed himself last night.

The Ol\' shotgun to the face.

I\'m pretty much in a stupor over it. I didn\'t cry... Didn\'t even feel like crying, even though he was a good friend.


I\'m just fucked up over it.


It\'s almost like I\'m pissed at him for doing it.


Anyone else ever have someone close to them do this?

I just feel weird and wanted to see if anyone else ever went through this.



Had my boss and his brother kill himself, at first I was angry, then wondering why the f@#k they did it and after time got over it. Now i don\'t really think about it. Family is a different thing though, you may never get over it, but you will move on.
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« Reply #7 on: November 25, 2006, 10:26:13 PM »
i know what your going through. I had a classmate do it in 7th grade.

I wish i had words of advice but 1) i never do 2) im in a shit mood and 3) it was a while ago and i was young
 
Sorry you\'ll have to go through all this...lifes gunna change
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« Reply #8 on: November 26, 2006, 12:07:55 AM »
I was friends with a guy that shot himself with a shotgun, too. I wasn\'t close to him, but I was with him the night before he shot himself. He was really close to my best friend though, it really tore him up...
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« Reply #9 on: November 26, 2006, 12:31:19 AM »
Sorry to hear about that Luke. Unfortunatly (well, fortunatly for me) I don\'t have any experience in the matter.
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« Reply #10 on: November 26, 2006, 08:57:19 AM »
I\'m so sorry, man. That is really sad and is a terrible loss, especially with someone you were so close to. My deepest sorrows go out to you. I\'ve only had close encounters with my best friend (his attempts failed), so I can\'t pretend to know how you feel. I wish I could lend some helpful advice in coping with your mind, bud, but I don\'t. I only wish the best for you.
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« Reply #11 on: November 26, 2006, 09:51:05 AM »
Seems so many know people who have attempted suicide. :eek:
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« Reply #12 on: November 26, 2006, 02:08:28 PM »
Thanks Y\'all. I\'m actually doing pretty good. It\'s hard to explain.


I\'m real sad and all, but I feel more for his sister and mother, who as you can imagine aren\'t doing very well.

But as for me... I\'m grieving, but I\'m ok.

I did have some pretty horrible dreams last night.
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« Reply #13 on: November 26, 2006, 03:59:47 PM »
Here\'s a cute kitten :D

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« Reply #14 on: November 26, 2006, 05:05:11 PM »
heres another cute kitten
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