But I doubt that guy is racist against blacks, too. If you don\'t give the word that kind of weight, it doesn\'t carry that kind of tone. And that\'s pretty much how that whole "movement" got started.
On the other hand, I might find the term "fuckhead" to be inoffensive if I use it all the time casually, but other people would probably still find it offensive.
So, I guess, that kid at your student center is an inconsiderate prick. What a fuckhead.