Author Topic: Should your wife have guy friends? (Read 2414 times)

Paul2 · « **Reply #15 on:** January 25, 2009, 10:08:30 AM »

since you have kids. how do you know for sure they are your kids?

Living-In-Clip · « **Reply #16 on:** January 25, 2009, 10:16:20 AM »

I know - because at the time, we were only with each other.

I know - because they friggin\' look like me.

I know - because even if it turned out by genetics they aren\'t mine, they are mine emotionally. I was the one who has been there since day one and invested everything I had in them. They\'ll always be my kids.

« **Reply #17 on:** January 25, 2009, 10:22:41 AM »

20% of children are not biologically related to their "Father"

Viper_Fujax · « **Reply #18 on:** January 25, 2009, 11:21:32 AM »

80% of statistics are made up

Evi · « **Reply #19 on:** January 25, 2009, 12:27:24 PM »

Guys are bastards. Can\'t trust \'em.

Quote from: "LIC"

I disagree. No matter what guy, I\'d expect him to fuck my girl, if given the circumstances. It\'s just the way we are wired. It just depends on the girl. A woman knows if she wants to sleep with you or not and has all the control. The guy is just along for the ride.

Yeah, seriously.

« **Reply #20 on:** January 26, 2009, 10:28:10 AM »

Quote from: shockwaves

So what if it\'s a guy that you know is too much of a pussy to make a move, and that you know 100% your wife has zero interest in?

This guy exists in my life, and I wouldn\'t want my girlfriend alone with him. If he wanted to hang out, we could all go do whatever no problem, but not one on one. I could be convinced to let it happen, though, since she has no interest in him...

« **Reply #21 on:** January 26, 2009, 10:47:02 AM »

Any city dwellers here? Everyone in my life is so connected it would be damn near impossible for either me or my gf to not have friends of the opposite sex.

I used to have trust issues and insecurities at the beginning of my relationship (most people do since you don\'t know the other person as well yet), but I know I can trust her to have fun and still come home with dat tight puzzy. If you don\'t trust your mate or if she would be the type to play around then you shouldn\'t be with her in the first place.

clips · « **Reply #22 on:** January 26, 2009, 01:07:53 PM »

Hmmm...i don\'t know,... i think most guys are territorial and that\'s not to say their jealous,....it\'s like animals in some aspect..take the lion for instance... the male will not let another male near his female companion or family. Guys have humongous ego\'s and while even the most secure guy might not mind his gf havin\' male friends...i don\'t think they\'d approve of their gf hangin\' out with the guy and hammimg it up with him on a daily basis.

Always in the back of the guys mind is the said "friend" possibly crushin\' it...that\'s why guys tend to take it alot harder when their gf cheats on them...the thought of somebody else twistin\' out their gf is an image that devastates just about any guy...and since the guy always feels that nobody can bang a chick better than him, he\'ll always wonder if the other guy did a better job than he did...so yeah that cheatin\' thing is real confidence shaker for alot of guys...and that\'s why i think alot of guys choose to avoid this scenario altogether.

« **Reply #23 on:** January 27, 2009, 11:33:53 AM »

Quote from: THX

but I know I can trust her to have fun

I trust her, but I don\'t like a guy who has a thing for my girl and isn\'t able to suppress it enough to be a normal friend who would come around and see me, too.

I don\'t like the idea of him being around her. She might be wanting a friend, but he\'s harboring a schoolboy crush and at 30-ish, that\'s past cute and well into creepy in my opinion.

I guess I\'m saying it\'s good for your s/o to have opposite sex friends, but it\'d be nice if they were decent people and not just waiting in the weeds for an argument so they can run up and be insincerely supportive while trying to urge on a breakup or something, ya know?

Titan · « **Reply #24 on:** January 27, 2009, 03:16:10 PM »

Quote from: clips

Hmmm...i don\'t know,... i think most guys are territorial and that\'s not to say their jealous,....it\'s like animals in some aspect..take the lion for instance... the male will not let another male near his female companion or family. Guys have humongous ego\'s and while even the most secure guy might not mind his gf havin\' male friends...i don\'t think they\'d approve of their gf hangin\' out with the guy and hammimg it up with him on a daily basis.

Always in the back of the guys mind is the said "friend" possibly crushin\' it...that\'s why guys tend to take it alot harder when their gf cheats on them...the thought of somebody else twistin\' out their gf is an image that devastates just about any guy...and since the guy always feels that nobody can bang a chick better than him, he\'ll always wonder if the other guy did a better job than he did...so yeah that cheatin\' thing is real confidence shaker for alot of guys...and that\'s why i think alot of guys choose to avoid this scenario altogether.

Yeah seriously. I\'ve been in a situation like that and after we broke up, I took it really hard (probably because we were best friends for like 5 years before that and hooked up when either of us were single). She started messing with the guy she told me she was crushing. Took me almost a year for me to get over it and move on to a new girl. Things worked out for the better. The girl is a depressed mess with no friends and messages me every now and then saying how she misses me and loves me. I just ignore her. She had her chance. Anyway, clips, I agree. Its more territorial than jealousy. Its natural in male instincts I feel. I would have no problem with any girlfriend or hookups of mine to hang with their guy friends but once I find out when one likes her, I start to get defensive.

« **Reply #25 on:** January 30, 2009, 09:57:34 AM »

When questions like these come up, always go to the master:

Titan · « **Reply #26 on:** January 31, 2009, 12:40:37 PM »

Can\'t argue with Chris Rock there.

Bobs_Hardware · « **Reply #27 on:** February 01, 2009, 08:00:23 AM »

That\'s why I only go out with girls who are ugly as shit and no guy would touch them.

I\'ve never been conscious through a single sexual act with any girlfriend of mine.

Meanwhile, I feel secure that no guy will want her.

« **Reply #28 on:** February 02, 2009, 01:56:46 PM »

Quote from: clips

Hmmm...i don\'t know,... i think most guys are territorial and that\'s not to say their jealous,....it\'s like animals in some aspect..take the lion for instance... the male will not let another male near his female companion or family. Guys have humongous ego\'s and while even the most secure guy might not mind his gf havin\' male friends...i don\'t think they\'d approve of their gf hangin\' out with the guy and hammimg it up with him on a daily basis.

Always in the back of the guys mind is the said "friend" possibly crushin\' it...that\'s why guys tend to take it alot harder when their gf cheats on them...the thought of somebody else twistin\' out their gf is an image that devastates just about any guy...and since the guy always feels that nobody can bang a chick better than him, he\'ll always wonder if the other guy did a better job than he did...so yeah that cheatin\' thing is real confidence shaker for alot of guys...and that\'s why i think alot of guys choose to avoid this scenario altogether.

How long have you and your wife been married clips? If she says the guy is an old friend and all it is just conversation every once in a while I would not worry. If she is talking to this dude every other day then there is a problem. I don\'t believe in male friends because what guy has time to be spending time with another man\'s women if he has his own chick? Thats why I already told my women hang out with male friends and pretty much lose me.

« **Reply #29 on:** February 02, 2009, 02:39:57 PM »

If your woman loves and respects you she will be loyal.

If she doesn\'t, she wont.

Bottom line.

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Author Topic: Should your wife have guy friends? (Read 2414 times)