Should your wife have guy friends?

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Now i\'m pretty confident in my spot,..but i don\'t recommend it...only because i know how i was when i was the supposed "friend"....things started off cool at first, but eventually we both wanted to do the nasty.

I guess it is possible to be plutonic(spell), but i know how guys are...the first time you get into an argument, she ends up calling the "other" guy back for a shoulder to cry on...then one thing leads another and she ends up gettin\' smashed....meh i\'m glad my wife isn\'t interested in anything like that....

And i\'m not a jealous guy either,..it\'s just that this article is talkin\' about the guy friend doin\' practically everything with her....i guess it depends on the relationship itself, but i would choose not to go this route....thoughts?


http://www.cnn.com/2009/LIVING/personal/01/23/lw.opposite.sex.friends/index.html

Depends on the guy, and depends on the wife.

[Living-In-Clip]

Yep.
Go for it.

I guess it is possible to be plutonic(spell), but i know how guys are

It\'s called platonic. However, you should be plutonic as plutonium to the other guy. Get to him first, before he gets to your wife and tell him to back the fuck off.

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Just know this.

That even if your wife is just friends with him - the guy, given the chance, will always sleep with her. It is always in the back of his mind, no matter what.

Myself, I don\'t care if my fiance has male friends she hangs out with.

[Paul2]

the reason why you don\'t care if your "wife" has male friends is because you, yourself also have girlfriends.

[Living-In-Clip]

This is true.

Depends on the guy, and depends on the wife.

Truth.

I trust my girl, and she knows if she played around I\'d beat the living shit out of her

[Living-In-Clip]

It\'s cheating when a woman does it.

It\'s pimp when a guy does it.

TA-DA?

Truth.

I disagree. No matter what guy, I\'d expect him to fuck my girl, if given the circumstances. It\'s just the way we are wired. It just depends on the girl. A woman knows if she wants to sleep with you or not and has all the control. The guy is just along for the ride.

It\'s cheating when a woman does it.

It\'s pimp when a guy does it.

TA-DA?



I disagree. No matter what guy, I\'d expect him to fuck my girl, if given the circumstances. It\'s just the way we are wired. It just depends on the girl. A woman knows if she wants to sleep with you or not and has all the control. The guy is just along for the ride.

This is so true. I talked to my girl about this. I already told her if she wants to hang with another dude then bye all means fo be with me. Leave me alone. There is no such thing a guy friends. He only a dude who has not "hit that" yet.

The only way this works is if the guy friend is a friend of both of yours and hangs out with both of you, not just her. Once this guy is alone with her, he\'s probably looking for sex. She could be friends with a gay guy, but even then, he\'d probably end up being all grabby or something.
 
I prefer when no one has any friends.

[Living-In-Clip]

Friends are for losers who don\'t like to be alone!

I disagree. No matter what guy, I\'d expect him to fuck my girl, if given the circumstances. It\'s just the way we are wired. It just depends on the girl. A woman knows if she wants to sleep with you or not and has all the control. The guy is just along for the ride.

So what if it\'s a guy that you know is too much of a pussy to make a move, and that you know 100% your wife has zero interest in?

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The only thing that matters is your wife has zero interest. Even if the guy is a pussy, if your wife has interest and makes a move, he will do her.