I feel your pain! Years ago, my wife & I first married and thought we should consider our finances separate. That worked for about the 1st 3 months (since I made more money...)... I\'ll never forget the night that it got too much for her and she came stormin\' down the hallway, mad as hell, butt-naked...[edited for content by user :nut: ]
Anyway, after that, we agreed to put our money together into a single account, pay bills out of it, save out of it, buy big ticket items (car, etc.) out of it after mutual decision, etc...., and give each other an equal allowance out of it. With that money we each have the right to do with our own $$$ however we see fit. She spends it on her horses; I spend it on my Goldwing and my gaming needs. No more rolled eyes on either side. No more arguments...NOT ONE in 12 years!!!
Marriages are quirky things...and hard to change set ways for many years. But, hey, a gamers gotta do what a gamers gotta do -- so do whatever you need to do to keep the games flowing!!! :facelick: