Age has a lot to do with it. I see nothing offensive in saying that your age allows you to have a naive view on the world and current situations, like this one.
We all have ben young at one time and had those same naive views, such as "ah, that doesn\'t effect me" or "it isn\'t that big of a deal".
All I said was as you mature you\'ll gain more experience about the real world and what things do honestly effect people. Things like this are a big deal and you may realize that when you\'re 23 and maybe paying child support.
And while it may sound like I don\'t agree with you - I do to an extent. We are lucky that we don\'t have to deal with certain things. But those things that we do have to deal with are important.