What do to about Women and relationships

women usualy get the kids because they are the better parent.... and im allowed to generalize here, because you did it first :P

You need to have a good relationship with a woman, and then you might realize what you\'re missing, LIC.  Maybe you\'ve been shit on by women before, but they\'re not all like that.  Your hostile attitude is not going to endear you to them either.

Ah well whatever.  Probably nothing I say is going to change your mind.  If you feel like hearing any more from someone who has more experience than you, let me know.

Heh, I\'m not in a relationship but I gotta disagree LiC. You make a lot of valid points, but I just don\'t think that relationships are hell. Many are, but many aren\'t. You can\'t just generalize and say "don\'t get married!".

Nice way to put your opinion, BTW. Bitterness is always funny.

Originally posted by kopking
not just his parents, but his grandparents too.... j/k

hahahahahaha that was hilarious.

Anyway, I totally disagree with LIC... If anything, having a significant other to enjoy life with can\'t beat anything. Sorry but I don\'t think playing games and buying dvds all my life will make me happy. As for divorce blah blah, that\'s not always the case, if anything, getting into a relationship always has it\'s risks, there\'s no such thing as a perfect one.

Relationships do suck.  The longer they go on, the tougher they get, and the harder it is to hold together (unless you\'re married). It\'s a constant emotional rollercoaster ride and you don\'t know if you\'re gonna get a good or bad day. I\'ve been with my gf for pushin on 10 months, and it\'s been such a freakin journey... At the moment we\'re all cool and happy and in love, but who knows when we\'ll be at each other\'s throats the next day...

Love can be a best friend, or a worst enemy.

But in the grand perspective of things, I\'m with SER. There is nothing better than just wrapping your arms around a chick and just having her close to you. Just takin her out to see a movie, or just sitting together and watching TV is such a humbling and "feel-good" element in one\'s life. Even when things are rough, it\'s much better than before when I was alone and only hung out with my friends and stuff. So basically, I can\'t wait till the day I get married and have that life long companion to share my life with. Sounds much better than being a hermit.

Relationships are for people who need to depend on someone.
Losers.

Wrong- Relationships are for the people who have better things to do than watch cartoons, masturbate and live with their parents until they are kicked out.

You have honestly never been in love LIC, and when you are (If even possible), you will know it is an unstoppable feeling.

but who knows when we\'ll be at each other\'s throats the next day...

Hey dont worry, everyone has been down her throat.

Har har...

Anyways, I think LIC\'s gone through a few "Ugh... I\'m pissed" threads of his own that he has yet to share.

Originally posted by QuDDus
If we do get back together I just don\'t know will it ever be the same.

In my opinion, you two are done.  You can prolong it and follow your heart and try to make it work, but it\'s been my experience that it won\'t last very long.

Either way, good luck.  Right now you seem a little worked up.  I\'d try to cool off and focus.  Get a grip so you can try to make the best decision.

-Eik

[videoholic]

Originally posted by SwifDi
Relationships do suck.  The longer they go on, the tougher they get, and the harder it is to hold together (unless you\'re married). It\'s a constant emotional rollercoaster ride and you don\'t know if you\'re gonna get a good or bad day.

Why do you think it\'s easier to hold together if you are married?  It\'s just as hard and takes just as much work.  

You put that ring on, nothing magical happens that bonds you together.  Nothing has changed.  Only in the eyes of the government and taxation...

You still have to work hard or you will begin to feel like you are wasting your life with a chick you don\'t care for.  And that is pretty sucky.

Oh BTW: Video time to change your queer quote of the week.

*hint hint*

[Living-In-Clip]

I\'ll put this in jest.

Women are worthless creatures. Who do nothing but use their vagina to manulipate the male gender.

Thank you.

I was hopin\' that I was not in the minority on this one, but I guess I am.
-shrugs-

Have you all never noticed the women have a zillion male friends? And when they dump you, often within one week they are out with one of them? That\'s because women always have the \'back-up f**k\'. They make male friends ahead of time, that way when they dump you, they can go suck some other dude off. Qud , I would bet the same just happened to you.

And this whole nonsense that women are the better parents. Give me a break. A man can be just as good a parent as the mother.

I still say women was better when they was un-opinionated, stayed at home and done nothing, \'cept cook, clean and put out. Now\'a\'days, they have opinions, voice them all to often, gain weight once you marry them, take half of your stuff.

This isnt the 1930\'s any more.

Originally posted by videoholic
Why do you think it\'s easier to hold together if you are married?  It\'s just as hard and takes just as much work.  

You put that ring on, nothing magical happens that bonds you together.  Nothing has changed.  Only in the eyes of the government and taxation...

You still have to work hard or you will begin to feel like you are wasting your life with a chick you don\'t care for.  And that is pretty sucky.

Obviously I don\'t know yet, but from what I see, by marriage you\'re basically commiting to one another forever. Therefore when times are rough, you\'re LAST option is to get a divorce, and there\'s a lot more pressure on splitting up because it\'s difficult to end a marriage. With just dating someone, it\'s just like practice for getting marriage. You can split up because there\'s less at risk.

Originally posted by Living-In-Clip
Have you all never noticed the women have a zillion male friends? And when they dump you, often within one week they are out with one of them? That\'s because women always have the \'back-up f**k\'. They make male friends ahead of time, that way when they dump you, they can go suck some other dude off. Qud , I would bet the same just happened to you.

 

Those are the girls you\'re going after though. You\'re just lookin for the "quick f**k" and finding these type of girls... If you want a quality woman, you have to adjust your priorities accordingly.

[Living-In-Clip]

Originally posted by Spudz


This isnt the 1930\'s any more.

Sadly, you\'re right. The 1930\'s was a much better time for relationships.