What do to about Women and relationships

Relationships have been the same.

Man depends on woman, Woman depends on man.


If women are so useless, why arent we asexual? You said yourself the only use they have is to bear children.

Originally posted by Living-In-Clip
Women are worthless creatures. Who do nothing but use their vagina to manulipate the male gender.

Only the weak can be manipulated.  But I admit women have their bad qualities, and so do men.  The world would come to a screeching halt without balance.  Women need men, and men need women.  I\'m not just talking about relationships and sex, either.  So we all just better learn to fukcing live with each other.

Going back to QuDDus\' original problem...

I\'m so sorry that your gf broke up with you.  That\'s really hard.  I understand you\'re not ready to let her go.  Maybe she isn\'t either.

However, since she is going through some tough times, she needs to back up and really think about what she wants to do to get herself out of the rut.  Like someone said earlier, give her the space you need.  She probably doesn\'t want  to worry about balancing the relationship with you and all the other stuff she\'s going through.

Here are my suggestions:
-Call her back.  Yes, you left her a message and yes you\'re too proud to call her a second time.  Just this once, swallow that pride and call her back.  Leave a message saying that you understand that she needs her space and that you\'re just a phone call away should she ever need you (even just to talk).  Tell her that you\'ll be thinking about her and hoping that she\'ll get through what she needs to get through OK.  Then you can leave it up to her to call you back and it lets her know that you still care.

-With the time that you\'ll have free, you\'ll most likely be thinking about her a lot.  I sense from how you spoke of her, she\'s practically all you think about.  Go out to the bookstore and buy yourself a journal; something that looks like you and her would agree on in appearance (ie you probably wouldn\'t want floral on the cover, she probably wouldn\'t want Superman on the cover).
Whenever you feel like talking to her, something you want to tell her, write it all down in that journal.  Then when she\'s ready to get back together, you can give the book to her.  Or if you decide that you\'re tired of waiting (perish the thought!), you can give that to her, as a symbol of finally letting yourself break up with her.

I hope what I had to say helped.  PM me if you want some more suggestions.    Good luck.





LIC  I was about to argue everything you said, but decided that it would be pointless.  Here\'s what you need:

HUG

i guess your right rya. Thats all I can do. I guess I\'ll just have to move on I mean there are other fish in the sea. I just don\'t think I want one anytime soon. I will just stay in college and try and focus on graduating and getting me a great job.

I think I will be over this soon, but I still don\'t think I could start any realationship with anybody anytime soon, because I just don\'t see any reason too.

This is not the first hard relationship I have went through and I guess I am just getting fed up with the women seeming to always hurt me in some way.  I think this is the reason men turn into dogs.

[Living-In-Clip]

Damnit! I forgot we have women posters.

I\'ve been caught!

ARGHHHH!

<-runs & hides!

How come no one gave me good, solid advice when I was having girl problems? All I got was put-downs, and a picture of Boris Yeltsin holding a pink dildo.

Originally posted by SwifDi
How come no one gave me good, solid advice when I was having girl problems? All I got was put-downs, and a picture of Boris Yeltsin holding a pink dildo.

That\'s because we all secretly (?) hate you.

Originally posted by QuDDus
i guess your right rya. Thats all I can do. I guess I\'ll just have to move on I mean there are other fish in the sea. I just don\'t think I want one anytime soon. I will just stay in college and try and focus on graduating and getting me a great job.

I never said to give up.  My entire post is basically saying, give her some time and space.  You never know if she\'ll go back to you.  Ryu and I broke up once as well.  We got back together (not right away, mind you).  Keep hoping.  

How come no one gave me good, solid advice when I was having girl problems? All I got was put-downs, and a picture of Boris Yeltsin holding a pink dildo.

When was the last time you asked for serious advice on girl problems?  I would have noticed that thread or Ryu would have noticed it and I would have posted something if it were meaningful.  

Actually, I did notice it, but a relationship with problems without even being a year old would be pointless to comment on.  Not to mention, no matter what, each and every person here, especially Vapor, will do what they want when they want.  

Despite that, wouldn\'t it be nice to be someone else\'s conscience for a day?

Knowing your better half is somewhere out there is a nice thought but I must say relationships are difficult.  Things can\'t be forced and everthing mends with time.

Well rya I say forget it. I mean there are way more beautiful women out here for me to be trying to stay with this one. I could see if I done something wrong then I would see how she could be acting this way.

But I did nothing wrong so hay forget it. She got too much baggage anyway. I got everything going for me it\'s her lost.

I\'m movin on.

Sounds like she just needs time and wants to be alone with her family for a while.  Give it a month or two and who knows?  Maybe she\'ll be calling you to try and patch things up.

With all that said, and as tough as it is to give up on a girl you have deep feelings for... there are lots of good women out there.  If this isn\'t the "one", keep looking and you\'ll eventually find her.

I agree with the moving on.  Pining for someone should be limited to 2 months.  After that, forget it, and if you two are gonna get back together, fate will take care of it.

Well I met another women. And we talked for a while I am suppose to call her back latter on tonite.

I just don\'t know if I could trust women though. She seems nice and everything and really was opened minded. I don\'t wanna rush things.  She\'s hot I am just going to keep meeting as many women as I can.

I just hope I get better and learn to trust again.

Originally posted by QuDDus
She\'s hot I am just going to keep meeting as many women as I can.

I just hope I get better and learn to trust again.

These two sentences together don\'t make me feel too sorry for you.