BS. Being attracted to something isn\'t because you\'re \'taught\' to be attracted to that something.
That\'s not all of it, no. The rest of it is exposure. As stated above, you\'re not born liking chocolate. There\'s nothing in your genetics that determines this. You aren\'t born liking coffee, or beer, or sunny days or football. You develop attractions to these things because you are exposed to them, and you find the experience pleasant.
Humans are born with a sexual drive (that lays latent until puberty), but it is a raw, unfocused sexual drive. Baby humans can barely function on their own. They are born with hunger, they are born knowing how to eat, but they are not born knowing what to eat, which is why an unsupervised child is as likely to drink Drano as he is to drink apple juice. Babies are born with nerves, and the ability to feel pain when something harms it, but the baby isn\'t born knowing that stepping on a thumbtack or putting glass it his mouth is going to stimulate the pain. Babies are born with a sex drive, but they aren\'t born knowing to have sex exclusively with the opposite sex, or the same sex, or with trees or dogs or other babies. They learn this, like they learn everything else, through life experience.
On the flip side, you aren\'t born with the knowledge that fire will burn you, that sharp objects will cut you, and that poison will hurt you and kill you. You learn this either by being taught, or by experience. And most people react the same way: Pain. And most people handle this by protecting themselves from these painful experiences.
There are of course some people who deliberately hurt themselves in these ways. Is that a genetic thing too? of course not.
It just makes no sense that specific sexual preference is a hard-wired trait when there isn\'t a single other specifc preference that is.
It\'s a cop-out by gays. Nothing more. Science will ultimately vindicate me.
But what about people who were brought up the exact same way but are homosexual. There are people who were brought up thinking homosexuality is not only improper but evil. There are people from families COMPLETELY intolerant of homosexuals who have come out of the closet and been disowned.
"I was brought up taught that homosexuality was wrong and improper."
This quote can probably be found in the autobiography of every closet case in history.
Being brought up isn\'t the only experience a child gets. You completely ignored the rest of what I said. Children meet other people, experience things that parents cannot control, and sometimes do exactly the opposite in rebellion. I was brought up taught that it was wrong, but I also know people who disagree. If I knew them in my more formative days, and if I placed more value on their beliefs than my parents, I could easily be gay right now. It didn\'t happen that way. I didn\'t know anyone who espoused the gay life, and I did place value on my parents\' beliefs. Therefore, I\'m straight. I wasn\'t born straight. I wasn\'t born gay. I\'m straight because of life experience. And whatever you are, it\'s the same for you.
As for closet cases, of course closet cases are exposed to insensitivity from one major factor in their lives. If everyone they knew were accepting, they wouldn\'t be closet cases. Dur.