Not so fast lezbo!!!

Do not take offense if someone in stating the way things are. It\'s not natural and any clear thinking person will say the same thing.

As I said, I am not going to sugar coat the way I feel.

Tell me though, in forming your opinion, have you ever consulted those you are forming an opinion on?  If you didn\'t ask a gay person why they are gay, and try to understand it for yourself, then you are speaking from a place of ignorance.

I want to say that i dont have any thing against lesbians but lets be real god never made room for that lifestyle jesus died on the cross so we could live in freedom i cant judge anyone but god willuntill then i will give my personal opinion i feel it is wronfg for gay couples to adopt children its selfish and self centered

I don\'t think I need to have a sit down and discuss why someone is gay to have the opinion that it is not natural.

Originally posted by rage_42
I want to say that i dont have any thing against lesbians but lets be real god never made room for that lifestyle jesus died on the cross so we could live in freedom i cant judge anyone but god willuntill then i will give my personal opinion i feel it is wronfg for gay couples to adopt children its selfish and self centered

Christ...

How is it at all selfish and self centered?

Originally posted by Ace
I don\'t think I need to have a sit down and discuss why someone is gay to have the opinion that it is not natural.

But how can you really know what you\'re talking about unless you hear from those who would know the situation best?

Clearly it isn\'t as simple as you make it out to be.  If it was, then people wouldn\'t be so split on it.

Well if you consider that a child should have a mother and a father, as nature intends it to be, I guess you could see it as being self centered.

Once again, do you know anyone who was raised by a gay couple?  Do you have any statistics you are basing this on, any testimonies?  No.  You are making assumptions, and false ones at that.  How does being gay makes someone an unfit parent?

Originally posted by shockwaves

But how can you really know what you\'re talking about unless you hear from those who would know the situation best?

Clearly it isn\'t as simple as you make it out to be.  If it was, then people wouldn\'t be so split on it.

This is where I think we have to start getting back to basics. If we see something and it is wrong then we should say so.

Ace

Having a gut feeling on something being right or wrong is one thing.  Those are based on assumptions.  This one happens to be wrong.  Yes, I am telling you your beliefs are wrong, the same way you are saying other peoples life styles are wrong, when you really know very little about what those life styles are about.

Originally posted by shockwaves
Once again, do you know anyone who was raised by a gay couple?  Do you have any statistics you are basing this on, any testimonies?  No.  You are making assumptions, and false ones at that.

I have not done the reasearch myself but I will try and dig up some links that explain my side of the story.

How could you say that the assumption of a a family that has a mother and a father is not the best way for a child to grow up?

Ace

Why does it matter what sex the parents are?  I believe that as long as they are good parents who love and support their children, it makes no difference.

Originally posted by Sara
I\'m not trying to tell anyone that homosexuality is natural or un-natural.  I\'m just wondering why people use that argument when in fact, not much of our lives are remotely natural anymore.  If something is declared "unnatural", does that make it wrong?

Those are way two different kinds of natural.  Homosexuality was never meant to be.  We are made to reproduce and two of the same part don\'t fit together.  Its like a little kids toy, you don\'t try to jam the squares in the circles spot, its not right.

Hmm, I find it kind of sad that we can\'t see the value of a normal family.

If there are two couples one gay and one straight that will love the child which would you think is better for the child?

Ace

I don\'t see how it is any different.

And homosexuality is natural.  People are born that way, they don\'t become gay or decide to be gay.  How is that unnatural?