Sexuality is a subconscious choice, you are born ambiguous, yet you have no control whatsoever of which way you sway.
The most choice you are given is whether or not you perform the act, but that doesn\'t effect who you really are.
Bobo seems to make the most sense here.
Personally speaking...it is not a choice. At least it\'s not one I was given to make.
As for being a product of my environment. I have the most conservative, narrow minded parents in the U.S. along with a brother who is the straightest person I know. The town I grew up in has a population of 1200 rednecks. My entire family are christians and my dad is the most judgemental person I know...we don\'t see eye to eye on much.
Hell, I didn\'t get to watch TV until I was around 6 years old and even then it was on a limited basis. (Afternoon cartoons, then homework)
I didn\'t know what a homo was until I was 12 years old. I knew long before that I was attracted to guys though.
Is it tough...yes. Extremely frustrating and most of the time a severe depressant. I\'m 21 and still haven\'t accepted it fully. I don\'t scam on guys as I just can\'t bring myself to do it...embarasment and insecurity have alot to do with that.
I\'ll answer any questions you guys might have.
